Stella Damasus' moving tribute to late husband, Jaiye Aboderin
Stella Damasus' late husband and father of her two children Jaiye Aboderin
slumped and died while playing basketball with friends on December 3rd
2004. He was just 33 years old. May his soul continue to rest in
peace...Amen. See Stella's touching tribute on the 10th anniversary of his death...
Heya,, sorry dear! How are you coping? You never gone close to a man since then? Well... I guess you should continue with life. J'aiyejeje is sleeping...don't let the trauma ruin you.
@Adejumoke Oniranu....Olobo town Kansu......don't worry someone will snatch your huaband and also your kids...so u understand the pain @Doris is going through
Una go just come here dey Ryan ikpata.........Ode!
Aww. The pains and agony of loosing a loved one just never goes away. It takes only the grace of God. I won't ever forget the pains and trauma i went through when i lost my child. I feel happy but there is still an empty space she left vacant in my heart. Most times the vacancy remains there for too long cuz no one can be compared to that person. But by His grace I've replaced her twice but the pains linger on. You just wish they never left.
Everything I've seen and heard about this woman is first class. She comes across as intelligent, courageous and thoughtful. May God bless and continue to use her
Awwww, I get her feeling. when you lose someone, the original thought is that time will ease the pain, but the reality is that it never gets easier. You just have to get used to not having them there and pretending you don't miss them, because that is all you can do given the situation.
Fucking hypocrite!! And u snapped another lady husband. And u are here paying respect to ur late husband. Is that the way to be a hoe these days?? Just asking !!!
Fucking hypocrite!! And u snapped another lady husband. And u are here paying respect to ur late husband. Is that the way to be a hoe these days?? Just saying !!!
May his soul continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord, I can still remember vividly the day NTA, announced of his demise I felt cold shiver ran down my spine as I pondered with my child like memory how will Stella cope even though I still feel same today, but God Almighty has been faithful to His words by being with the family. May God continue to be wt you Stella n the family. Amen.
Just take heart. When any soul reaches its time to be deseased, it will neither increase nor decrease a second. Every soul shall taste a death. mjabdulk@gmail.com
Aww that's touching but it will still not justify the fact that he died untimely death. Wish people will stop judging you, but like the saying.....you can never please everybody or fool everybody at the same time. Continue resting in peace. <<>>. REPORTING>>>>. LIVE FROM PORT NOVIA>>>
Story for d Gods, ur actions after his death so far dsnt show u miss him, cause u ve being in and out bed with different men, instead of u to focus on raising his children.If he wus alive today m sure he would ve divorced u cause of ur behaviour of philandering. God knew u will spoil his good name that he inherited from his late father and strived so hard to sustain and preserve dats why he took him away from u dis jezeebell. So putting up a post on how much u miss him, dsnt insulate u from d many atrocities u ve committed since d demise of ur late husband.U r a shame and disgrace to womanhood and ur kids u should cover ur face in shame, hobnobbing from one man to another is not d best.M not against u remarrying but ur acts in recent times ve being scandalous and shameful, u r an effigy of immorality and indecency.
Keep resting in God's bossom Jaiye...Hmmn nyc words stella but pls have you apologised to Doris Simeon for destroying her home and happiness, Your apologies won't make any difference tho...I don't like you or work anymore
Find it very hard to believe you miss him not with another person's husband warming your bed naaah waaaa for love. Jaiye rest in peace indeed you are in a better place . Stella encourage your gigoolo Daniel to return his son to the mum , you are a terrible role model .
rip mr jaiye. e be like say linda dey collect bribe b4 she post person comment. i never see my comment since i don dey comment for dis blog. think i will just stick to reading
I have learnt not to judge people.....you are not in her shoes, you don't know her story. Nigerian women would prefer to die in a man's house than move on. Life is too short....
life can be dificult when you loose someone that really matters in your life, all you need to do is just take heart n put your trust in the Lord. Good to know you have learned to move on n appreciate life the way you see it, God is your comforter .
Stella's main reason for this write up is indirectly for Doris. Stella said she has learnt to say goodbye to people(Doris) who are barriers in her life cos they may be holding her back from extending love and gratitude to those who should get it. meaning Daniel was getting love from Doris and she decided to help. Aye akamara! This woman is mean!!!! collect ur friend husband and pikin and still get mouth to dey yarn rubbish. dairis God o!
Rest on Jaiye. Stella! Stella!! Stella!!! There is God oooooo! All these fake postings on Jaiye's 10th year remembrance no go carry you reach your in-laws' doormouth o. REPENT NOW!
Awwww! So touching.
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Aww,losing a loved one aint It @ all
DeleteAww,losing a loved one aint It @ all
DeleteSoo touching....but its as if she's still in love with him...more or les like she neva married or dated anyone##miz Ghana#
DeleteChaiiii
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Did u or did u not cheat when he was alive?stella pack one corner!
ReplyDeleteHmmn,who made u Judge nd jury?
DeleteLike seriously all u could come up with after reading the tribute were those words? Wilheminna may God purify ur sense of reasoning!
DeleteWilimina you have no home training.
DeleteI feel bad for your mum.
Moses ur so full of shit!
DeleteReally touching. May his soul continue to rest in peace.
ReplyDeletehow touching ? continue to rest in peace
ReplyDeleteHope thismdoesnt trigger Wunmi to start writing. I dont want any drama.
ReplyDeleteContinue to Rest in Peace...
ReplyDeleteEhya so touching
ReplyDeleteQuite touching and lovely writeup. May God keep consoling her and keep her strong. She's blessed
ReplyDeleteAwww! So touching
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwwwww he's resting in d Lord already, Pretty woman n tank God u av moved on + Haterz oya start hating!!!!
ReplyDeleteRIP JAY.
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And yet she snatched another woman's husband!! Touché.
ReplyDeletehmmmmm..... How Time Flies!!! 10 years already...... continue to rest in peace Mr Jaiye!!!
ReplyDeleteRip sir
ReplyDeleteAww.True love never dies.Rest in peace jaiye
ReplyDeleteChai...so touching,may his soul continue to rest in peace Amen,i can see d luv in his eyes.
ReplyDeleteDiva chilee
Awww...I Cn imagine her pain. I lost a very close friend dat way just dat he wasn't playing bball but jogging..take heart §tella
ReplyDeleteAwwww so touching :( ...buh dat doesn't make me to trust you. *straight face*
ReplyDelete*duchesschomzy*
So touching #rip
ReplyDelete#abbytohxoft
touching! my his soul continue to rest in peace...
ReplyDelete#GodblessNigeria
Loving and inspiring msg, Rip Jaiye
ReplyDeleteHeya,, sorry dear! How are you coping? You never gone close to a man since then? Well... I guess you should continue with life. J'aiyejeje is sleeping...don't let the trauma ruin you.
ReplyDeleteThat husband snatcher hissssssssssssss
DeleteAre you not on dis planet? Dont you know she has since re-married and moved on already??
DeleteAwwww! So touching #onelovefromSnow#
ReplyDeleteEyah..this is so touching.May his soul continue to RIP
ReplyDelete*sobs*
ReplyDeleteMay his gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace amen
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwww so touching
ReplyDeleteOne and only Ada David Omobabalanu says so
10yrs already,May God preserve his children
ReplyDeletehow sweet....
ReplyDeleteOuch so touching, rest on bro
ReplyDeleteSo touching,it is well
ReplyDeleteRmbr to say ure sorry to that lady whom u snatched her husband n eloped with to yankee. I mean bishop's ex wife. Cnt rmbr her name.
ReplyDeleteContinue to rest in peace.............
ReplyDeletePls whay are you doing with Doris Simon's husband? Clarification please
ReplyDeleteAwwww... so touching. Its nice for her to still remember her late husband in this way...
ReplyDeleteRip to Jaiye,God will continue to uphold d girls. temmiemidas@gmail
ReplyDeleteStella Damasus Aboderin Nzeribe Ademinokan (whew!), leave Jaiye alone and persuade Daniel to return Doris' son instead. This woman sef....
ReplyDeleteDon't judge her, are u more righteous dan she does? Do u knw everything she has been tru? Can u handle half of wat she has done?
Delete@Adejumoke Oniranu....Olobo town Kansu......don't worry someone will snatch your huaband and also your kids...so u understand the pain @Doris is going through
DeleteUna go just come here dey Ryan ikpata.........Ode!
@Galore
may he continue to rest in peace Amen cheers lindaikeji
ReplyDeleteAww. The pains and agony of loosing a loved one just never goes away. It takes only the grace of God. I won't ever forget the pains and trauma i went through when i lost my child. I feel happy but there is still an empty space she left vacant in my heart. Most times the vacancy remains there for too long cuz no one can be compared to that person. But by His grace I've replaced her twice but the pains linger on. You just wish they never left.
ReplyDeleteMay his soul find eternal peace@ologunifemidolapo@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteEverything I've seen and heard about this woman is first class. She comes across as intelligent, courageous and thoughtful. May God bless and continue to use her
ReplyDeleteStella u get sense.
ReplyDeleteAmen o.
ReplyDeleteSleep on Jaiyejeje
ReplyDeleteWow! That is really touching, RIP Sir, Jaiye. Sweedydiagold@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteTouching... 10yrs already? How time flies. Rest on Jaye
ReplyDeleteRip. Nice one. He died at a very young age. God knows best.
ReplyDeleteThis is so touchin...Continue 2 rest in peace Jaiye Aboderin.................................. NJ
ReplyDeleteSo touching, tears running down my eyes. God be with u and the girls Stella.
ReplyDeleteeeeeyah
ReplyDeleteAwwww tears
ReplyDelete:( PELE'
ReplyDeleteAwww so touching,his soul will cont 2 rip
ReplyDeleteCont to sleep well Jay. So touching
ReplyDeletemay he rest in peace
ReplyDeleteTake hrt Stella.
ReplyDeleteContinue to rest in peace, sobs ...
ReplyDeleteAwwww, I get her feeling. when you lose someone, the original thought is that time will ease the pain, but the reality is that it never gets easier. You just have to get used to not having them there and pretending you don't miss them, because that is all you can do given the situation.
ReplyDeleteRIP jaiye...it is well..
ReplyDeleteContinue to RIP Mr Jaye...
ReplyDeleteTears*
ReplyDeleteFucking hypocrite!! And u snapped another lady husband. And u are here paying respect to ur late husband. Is that the way to be a hoe these days?? Just asking !!!
ReplyDeleteSnapped kwa? Na wa
DeleteSnapped ko photobombed ni
DeleteSo so touching indeed.
ReplyDeletethis is just so thoughtful of her... may his soul rest in peace........banjibrenda@yahoo.co.uk
ReplyDeleteFucking hypocrite!! And u snapped another lady husband. And u are here paying respect to ur late husband. Is that the way to be a hoe these days?? Just saying !!!
ReplyDeleteContinue to rip man
ReplyDeleteAnd yet she lives with another woman's husband, she has two daughters, smh.
ReplyDeleteMay his soul continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord, I can still remember vividly the day NTA, announced of his demise I felt cold shiver ran down my spine as I pondered with my child like memory how will Stella cope even though I still feel same today, but God Almighty has been faithful to His words by being with the family. May God continue to be wt you Stella n the family. Amen.
ReplyDeleteAwww!
ReplyDeleteEyahh, nice.
ReplyDeletexo touching contiune to rip agnesodey10@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteWoow so touching nd heartwarming,continue to Rip mr jaye buh stella is living well thank God
ReplyDeleteMscheeew rubbish
ReplyDeleteJust take heart. When any soul reaches its time to be deseased, it will neither increase nor decrease a second. Every soul shall taste a death. mjabdulk@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteAww that's touching but it will still not justify the fact that he died untimely death. Wish people will stop judging you, but like the saying.....you can never please everybody or fool everybody at the same time. Continue resting in peace. <<>>. REPORTING>>>>. LIVE FROM PORT NOVIA>>>
ReplyDeleteHis soul will continue to rest in d LORD
ReplyDeleteBeautiful tribute. Some people will still find something negative to say about this!
ReplyDeleteIs dat d reason she sleeps around now
ReplyDeleterest in peace..
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Still painful n I can feel d luv in her words bt she's bin careful nt to hurt d new man..... RIP still sir,I miss d voice n dia mad collabos
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
Oh i feel like crying....so touching!
ReplyDeleteeyah . it is well
ReplyDeletetake heart dear. Rip.
ReplyDeletehummmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteEyah so so toching, eternal rest j.aboderin.#bela# mariaakwarandu@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteRip man
ReplyDeletewhat past is past
#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteAgain i feel like crying.....continue to rest in peace.
ReplyDeletevery touching tribute and true words of wisdom. may his soul continue to rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteI so hate dis girl, you are paying tribute after snatching someones husband.mtchewwww... GET A LIFE
ReplyDeleteAunt linda i must see my comment oooooooooo
Very touching!!! i just pray you find sincere joy and happiness you deserve in your new life outside him.
ReplyDeleteMay his soul continue to RIPP.
ReplyDeleteAeyaaaaaaaaa Pele God will b with u and ur children may u never lus strength ok
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmm what a painful death
ReplyDeleteVery touching.
ReplyDeleteSo touching
ReplyDeleteContinue to Rest in peace Jaiye.
ReplyDeleteAmen
ReplyDeleteawww.... touching indeed, almost brought tears to my eyes. rip man
ReplyDeleteWat a touching tribute bt pls Stella, y did u snatch Daniel 4rm Doris? Pls return Daniel 2 d rightful owner
ReplyDeleteAwwww nd they look so good together. This man looks like someone also in show biz tho
ReplyDeleteHow time flies. Continue to rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteChai how time flies! May ur soul continue to RIP. Ednamaka3@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteMay his soul rest in peace Amen
ReplyDeletecontinue to rest in peace ma men jaiye.i used to know him
ReplyDeleteMay his soul continue to rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteScholes
Wow, very touching piece.
ReplyDeleteCrying! Ma hrt take hrt, it is well
ReplyDeleteIt's good that his memory is still alive with her. Great piece.
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. So touching. Rest on Jaiye.
ReplyDeleteWow, very touching piece.
ReplyDeletehmn u try Stella. its not just about writing, pls live right and do not tamper with other people's happiness in a bid to be happy. may his soul rip.
ReplyDeleteMennn! I'm so touched. He looks so much like wunmi obe. Stella its well. I just hope ur haters will spare u 2day on d bashing n sympathize with u.
ReplyDeleteSo sad, but continue to rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteBastard woman.u mean when u wake up on another persons matrimonial bed.Ashewo kobo kobo.
ReplyDeleteStory for d Gods, ur actions after his death so far dsnt show u miss him, cause u ve being in and out bed with different men, instead of u to focus on raising his children.If he wus alive today m sure he would ve divorced u cause of ur behaviour of philandering. God knew u will spoil his good name that he inherited from his late father and strived so hard to sustain and preserve dats why he took him away from u dis jezeebell. So putting up a post on how much u miss him, dsnt insulate u from d many atrocities u ve committed since d demise of ur late husband.U r a shame and disgrace to womanhood and ur kids u should cover ur face in shame, hobnobbing from one man to another is not d best.M not against u remarrying but ur acts in recent times ve being scandalous and shameful, u r an effigy of immorality and indecency.
ReplyDeleteHe dat is witout sin shld cast d first stone. Hw many men av u slpt wit? If it's more dan 1 then u re no better!
DeleteJudge Judy,
DeleteMention 1 man she has been philandering with - with proof
Continue to RIP
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Keep resting in God's bossom Jaiye...Hmmn nyc words stella but pls have you apologised to Doris Simeon for destroying her home and happiness, Your apologies won't make any difference tho...I don't like you or work anymore
ReplyDeleteSIeep on beIoved Aboderin....
ReplyDeleteOne woman I always admire among naija actress, wish u well dear#emmarock#
ReplyDeleteMay his gentle soul continue 2 rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteEhyaa, may his soul continue to rest in peace
ReplyDeleteMay his soul rest in peace Amen but you won't be messing up if he actually taught you everything mentioned above.
ReplyDeleteMa he continue to rest in peace
ReplyDeleteYimu
ReplyDelete@Galore
MAY HIS SOUL CONTINUE TO REST IN PEACE. STELLA, GOD BE WITH YOU, YOUR CHILDREN & ALL ABODERIN FAMILY. I THANK GOD FOR HELPING YOU THUS FAR
ReplyDeleteWow, so touching. She must have really loved him
ReplyDeleteTouching
ReplyDeleteConti.to rest in peace
ReplyDeletehow sweet
ReplyDeleteSo touching,continue to rest in peace jaiye
ReplyDeleteGod bless his soul.damyseye@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteAaaaaw
ReplyDeleteKeep on resting in d Lord
Continue to Rest in peace
ReplyDeleteRest in peace
ReplyDeleteMay his soul rest in perfect peace
ReplyDeleteOhk...#gift#
ReplyDeleteFind it very hard to believe you miss him not with another person's husband warming your bed naaah waaaa for love.
ReplyDeleteJaiye rest in peace indeed you are in a better place .
Stella encourage your gigoolo Daniel to return his son to the mum , you are a terrible role model .
touching
ReplyDeleteVery touching. Rest on Jay
ReplyDeletecontinue to RIP...quinyluv21yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteeyai!!
ReplyDelete10yrz Nd still look fresh in her heart. RlP
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rip mr jaiye. e be like say linda dey collect bribe b4 she post person comment. i never see my comment since i don dey comment for dis blog. think i will just stick to reading
ReplyDeleteSo touching
ReplyDeleteStella go and sit down
ReplyDeleteAwwww! So touching,continue to RIP jaiyejaye
ReplyDeleteWell she might be acting up now............. but I think she experienced True Love that one time.........
ReplyDeleteMay Jaiye continue to rest in peace.
Jaiye was a great husband to her despite her cheating ways. R.I.P
ReplyDeleteI won't lie...i was touched by her write up.Rest on Jaiye.....i wnt judge Stella cos i dnt knw her story.Stop Judging pple.
ReplyDeleteContinue to rest in peace jaiyejeje
ReplyDeleteI ALMOST SHED TEARS WHILE READING THE STUFF!FOR ANONYMOUS 95;3 THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE.
ReplyDeleteGod is ur strength stella.....me he continue to RIP...
ReplyDeleteAWWWWWW!SO TOUCHING. MAY HIS SOUL CONTINUE TO REST IN PEACE, AMEN...
ReplyDeleteStella the ogbanje
ReplyDeleteVery beautiful tribute. He was huge. Did he have an underlying condition? Is she monitoring her daughters for its hereditarity?
ReplyDelete@ wilheminna moses, really? Did the man complain to you when he was alife? Obviously you don't understand what love is.
ReplyDeleteWell, sometimes I feel for this lady. It's not easy to loose a husband as such early age. May God strengthen her and her girls.
For those of you who come in here and right whatever you think, just know that you are not better of.
Let the husband snatching accusation rest already. A man can't be snatched. Daniel is with her because that's where he wants to be.
ReplyDelete>>>>>>> She will forever miss Jaiye, he was her one and will remain her only true love<<<<<<
ReplyDeleteSo touching and so painful to loose a loved one...
ReplyDeleteShe loved him......
ReplyDelete----------#Auntylindagoddaughter#
I swear, I m in tears.
ReplyDeleteGreat write up. It shows you hav a good heart.
ReplyDeleteMay his soul continue to rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt not to judge people.....you are not in her shoes, you don't know her story. Nigerian women would prefer to die in a man's house than move on. Life is too short....
ReplyDeleteTouching!!!
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww....so touching
ReplyDeleteCan people stop hating already and feel her pain for once? Na wa o. Some people are just goats, inhuman. Chai!
ReplyDeletealways missed this boss.RIP jayeola of the punch family.
ReplyDeletelife can be dificult when you loose someone that really matters in your life, all you need to do is just take heart n put your trust in the Lord. Good to know you have learned to move on n appreciate life the way you see it, God is your comforter .
ReplyDeleteleave her alone and let God be her judge.She must not must not move on in life because Jaiye died.
ReplyDeleteGod bless the dead.
ReplyDeleteSo touching. RIP, Jay.
ReplyDeleteRip jay
ReplyDeleteContinue to rest in peace Jaiye....Stella love God will never leave you nor forsake.
ReplyDeleteThou I dislike her but the tribute is passionate.
ReplyDeleteYeah! touching is an under statement. I almost started tearing.
ReplyDeleteRIP.....
ReplyDeleteStella's main reason for this write up is indirectly for Doris. Stella said she has learnt to say goodbye to people(Doris) who are barriers in her life cos they may be holding her back from extending love and gratitude to those who should get it. meaning Daniel was getting love from Doris and she decided to help. Aye akamara! This woman is mean!!!! collect ur friend husband and pikin and still get mouth to dey yarn rubbish. dairis God o!
ReplyDeleteMay his soul continue 2 rest in peace
ReplyDeleteRest on Jaiye. Stella! Stella!! Stella!!! There is God oooooo! All these fake postings on Jaiye's 10th year remembrance no go carry you reach your in-laws' doormouth o. REPENT NOW!
ReplyDeleteSorry for loss
ReplyDeleteIndeed time flies. Jay, continue to rest in peace till we meet to part no more
ReplyDeleteStella God is still with you and ur daughters.. Am sure ur late hubby is resting in the Lord!!
ReplyDeleteIFY N