While I was in school, I was 22 when I dated a 52 year old very rich man
because I needed his money. He made sure we were as discreet as
possible and I never got to know anything about him or his family, I only
knew his name.
Fast-forward to seven years later, I met this gorgeous gentleman who
has shown interest in taking me as his wife. Now
he took me home to his mum and I discovered his late dad was my former
sugar lover.
Do I tell him the truth as regards my relationship with his dad since love has no secrets or forget about it since the man is dead?
Hmmm....this one is kinda hard... tell him abt it because u may think ur secret is safe since d man's dead but secrets have a way of coming to light one way or the other... wish u luck in whatever u decide to do tho
tell that nigger so you'll feel guilty for the rest of your life. better still, end it or it will be called an incestuous relationship when you marry him
Nemesis calling stupid girl! Same will before all of you young girls fooling around with married men cos of money... GERROUT IDIOT! I don vex sef!! ~MOT~
Pls my dear dnt tell him,its gud the man is late else it would be ok,u dated him wen u were much younger,if u tell hw do u think ur fiance nd ur mother in-law will see u as,it as things dat happen in life,gud luck wit ur decision.
The man is dead.... no srz ties, i say dont tell him. However, if it ever comes up in the future, that marriage may end. #reallifeissues. #tough1 Go with ur guts. Pray abt it & ask God 2 guide u.
if you tell him, the man is gone, if you dont, the secret will eat you alive or one day u guys will worry and it slips your lips. still the man will be gone. damn karma is a bitch
Nne if u want ur marriage to last den 4get evrytin abt ur past..which love have no secret?who told u dat 1?..sumtins are better left unsaid..tank me later
If u are stupid and want to remain single all your life, tell him. The man is dead, your secret is in the grave; y do u want to damage urself and ur relationship?
Abeg the the past stay in the past jhoor! Am not encouraging other younger babes to follow ur dirty footsteps oh but in this case , there are some secrets that are better left buried if u want ur so called to last the test of trust... #myopinion#
I don't know if you should tell him or not, but experience has shown that its always very wise to tell whoever you are going to date or probably get married to everything about your past, me as a man personally if I get to know later during the marriage, it will not be palatable, same goes for most guys, if he found out later about your dirty past, or someone tell him it will be hard for him to believe you, and the trust he has for you will be bruised,
Mtchew dis one Na film story jare. And if it real u beta don't tell him cos if u do there goes Ur relationship. Which man would want to married his late father's lover? My friend be wise o
Hey you dummy poster can u please keep your smelly mouth shut and face your new life.what d freaky heck do u need to tell him 4?my dear some things should be left unsaid...wat Eva happened btw u and his dad is history pls bury it and move on abeggg.lucky u d man is gone so y spill?pls pls pls and pls don't let anyone try to preach to u about Doing it 4 God.God gave u brains,so pls use it..If u ever feel d need to talk about it,talk to God,he's d best listener...also ur mirror will listen...keep ur mouth shut and let ur little secret go with u to ur grave....never commented before on dis blog even though I visit daily but couldn't just let dis go without my 2 cents...good luck with ur life....
Depends on u and depends on how much love dis young guy ve for u if the love is not as strong as u think. Start looking for another one who will take u serious. Past is past focus on ur future
Whoa !!!! Telling him the truth seems so hard right now but if u are sure he is the one u want to spend the rest of ur life with and u love him open up to him and tell him..... Don't think u know how he will react ...... Pray about it and be honest ...... If he truly loves u he should respect ur honesty ..... Most importantly pray about it and let God show u how to go about this....
It's up to you, can you live with that kind of a secret for the rest of ur life? On the other hand bear it in mind that it will be almost impossible for any man to go ahead and marry you after u slept with his dad. On the other hand, simply break up with the guy and keep ur story to urself.
Hmmmmm, on one hand,its a risk my dear cos he is gonna hate u for life. Guys don't always appreciate girls dat are truthful. On the other hand, if u did not tell him,the thought is gonna hurt u for d rest of ur life. In summary,before telling him, pray to God to soften his heart so dat he can forgive u and appreciate u d more for telling him d truth. Goodluck
It is said that a secret can only be kept between two people when one is dead. In your case that literally is the case. Keep ur frigging mouth shut and stop opening ur fucking legs for money in future.
U shud tell him..if u truly love him n he truly loves u too Wot if u get to meet som1 dt knew u wit his dad wen he was still alive So tell him ursef first b4 he gets to know from an outsider
i hate you already, it shows what our women keep as secrets. why go into such a marriage? even if he never knows, are you not wary of karma? what if your kids are imbeciles? then you'll be blaming God. if you love him and want a bright future in your marriage to him, confess, what will be will be. capiche?
if the relationship is discreet as you said and sure no one else knows your relationship with the late father, no need to tell him as he will definitely thinks you enjoy older men. Keep the secret and move on. But if you know you will do such again you better tell him.
I think you tell him cos clearly it bother's you and u can't get it out of ur mind if u don't tell him it will eat u up n you won't end up enjoying your marriage because you will thinking about the day he'll find out and trust me he will eventually. Clear d air if its true love he'll still stick to u. Shalom
U bEtter shut that ur mouth and let God shut it for u, cause if u tell him, he won't forget about it and thank ur stars that the man is dead, and ur relationship with him was so discret, non of his friends know u. Congrats, just enjoy ursef. HAYJAY says so VIA TECNO
the best thing is to tell him...secrets dont last for too long and if he should find out on his own....thats gon be very painful...tell him once and for all
o young lady wat have u done....i guess d kno wat to do u just want a push....so here is ti..tell ur man as soon as possible,its gonna take d grace of God though...
Wat is wrong with u? Ok y do u want to tell him? So dat wetin go happen? Abeg let d dead remain dead. C me c wahala. U wan put urself for trouble. Enjoy ur marriage abeg. Except u nor luv d guy. Anytym he is even talking about his late father, pretend to knw ntin about him. Shekena!!!! Take ur tymooooooooo, c ur very stupid question. Linda next news abeg
Go tell am naa mumu! Ode! U want to destroy d memory of his dad in his head. Abeg oloshi carry ur wahala go incase if u r tired of d man.Just let d dead bury themselve.
NNE, WE MUSTN'T TELL EVERYTHING. YOU MADE A MISTAKE AND NOW YOU'RE OLDER AND WISER. WHAT HE DOESN'T KNOW WON'T HURT HIM, EXCEPT OF COURSE HE EXPLICITLY ASKS YOU ABOUT HIM, THEN FEEL FREE TO CONFESS...BUT I'D SAY, LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE...ABI HOW OYIBO DEY TALK AM
Babe, are you daft or just plain stupid? Listen and listen real good, NO MAN, no matter how much he claims to love you will continue to stay with you if he finds out you dated his Dad,dead or alive. .even if you carry gold for body. .this is one of the reasons why girls are advised to stay away from married men, cuz you don't know who you'll marry tomorrow. Anyway, I'm not about to judge you cuz I don't know your financial background or why you did it
Nne pls keep your mouth shut! How will he handle the fact that u screwed his dad??? Jeeez!! Ur lucky the man is dead else ur relationship wil hav been jeopardized.
My daysss!!!!!! Hahahahah, never seen a situation that best describes the word Karma, Karma has no menu indeed, you're served what you deserve, good for you then. But not that I support your past chosen business, but telling this guy makes no different, no guy will take that, I won't marry a man that has hitted my mum, so if he has the slightest idea, that's the end, to me it makes no difference, telling him now won't avert the history that his dad hitted u, u can confess later in future, or confess if only you believe you are the one that can't survive in that habitat and u want to leave. But wait o! How are you going to live with that, better find your way and let that poor innocent boy go, and go get another man
Pls forget abt it since he's dead. How do u think he wld feel if u tel him? What would it change if he knows?! Nothing... So personally I don't see the need. he is better off not knowing. Trust me
Babe, u know wot? Every saint has a past & every sinner has a hope of repentance...a past remains a past, after all, u weren't a virgin wen he met u, so def, some random persons must av fucked u.
Huh?!?!?! If I hear.... Don't bother 2 tell him since d man is dead, cuz d he's neva gonna trust u again. Even ur mother-in-law will dislike u...if she gets 2 knw. So, jst can it.
Y do some ppl ask stupid questions???? ODE tell him now....sooo if he once dated ur mum n she's dead u'll be cool with it right. My dear let d past bi d past, u don't have 2drag it 2ur present life. @tymz u keep somtynz away from somone u care not jst cuz u want 2, but 2 protect dem.
When you are advise not to date sugar daddy, you fink you kn it all. I will advise you to reprieve from your old ways and i am sure ur relationship is about to be ruined because you will see a lot of complicated advise here
I wouldnt suggest you keep secret while entering into marriage, so that guilty conscience wil not kill you before your time, except you dont have conscience.
Is better he marries you for who you are than for him to discover this from another source. I know telling him is not going to be easy but it is pertinent.
It depends on the awareness u created wen dating dis old man ...if u tink ur husband will in anyway finds out its beta u tell him urself...but if he cannot 4get it nd move on...@daanifex
Lol...if u really want to get married to him,dnt tell him cos he might tell his mother. No woman forgives the lady her husband cheated on her with even if he's dead or alive...she will probably not allow the marriage n even if she does, she will probably give u hell in the marriage.. N how do u think ur to-be husband would feel, knowing u slept with his father?? Since the father is dead, I suggest u SEAL ur mouth n take the secret to ur grave..ask God for forgivness tho. Linda ikeji !! Post my comment ooooo
Is that a question? Where his father has dipped, the son will dip? Do you want your kids to become cursed? Do you think you will not see yourself as a competitor to his mother? Really silly question. Leave the innocent boy alone. You were a prostitute foryou to not know anything about the man.
Forget it joor, if I hear say I tell d guy anything, d man dey alive sef I no how I go still package d story, how much more say e don die... These dayz wey husband no dey, I pray ooooooooo!!!
Girl. I am a believer of morals and true personality but death has made it lucky for u. Don't tell ur husband 2 be. Dats karma on the part of ur former sugar daddy. Enjoy ur life and makeup for any mistakes you av made in the past. Shikena
Lmao! See nollywood oo. I honestly thought this only happens in nollywood lol so it's actually real. Lmao my dear I don't know oo, because if u tell him that means you have definitely gone on the bad side of the mum. Lol i am sorry I can't help
NO NEED, COS DATS ALREADY IN THE PAST, SO LET IT BE IN THE PAST. AND BESIDES THE MAN IS DEAD. IF YOUR CONSCIENCE IS STILL BOTHERING YOU, JUST PRAY TO GOD, CONFESS YOUR SINS AND BELIEVE HE HAS FORGIVING YOU
hmm. since the man is no more, you should have no fears. but what about his dad's friends. i'm quite sure a few would recognise you. if i were, i would tell him. love understands. we all have a past.
Thank God d man is dead.don't ever tell ur spouse oh unless u want d relationship to break up.some secrets are better carried to d grave and dis is one of them!
hmm. since the man is no more, you should have no fears. but what about his dad's friends. i'm quite sure a few would recognise you. if i were, i would tell him. love understands. we all have a past.
The heart of a woman is as deep as the ocean. So you won chop papa and son and your conscience will withstand it!!! May God continue to save us. For sure you will still pretend to the guy that he is probably the first guy you are meeting or rather that you lost your vaginity during sports in secondary school. Hmmmmmm!
R u High? Sew ur mouth jare,na force 2 b saint? Tel him nd loose em,e b like sey u no kw sey na naija boi u wan marry.... His dad is dead nd gone wif d secret so die wif urs.
Tarrrrh don't tell him oh....worst case scenario the father is dead...if your sure you want to marry babe marry him with secret....only that secret won't make you love him less
Sweetie of Life, Since u re about to marry him, u should know if he can see u as d same woman he fell in love with or he'll be swayed with the information and ur relationship will be in jeopardy. At a point u should have told him about your past if you really feel like honesty is what you want, so no big deal telling him it his dad, it ll take a while but he ll get over it like he got over it then. However if you havent, dont deceive urself. Am sure dere is a reason y u didnt and dat reason still stands. Keep ur mind on sometyn else and pray a lot that things done in the dark dont come to light
As crazy as it may sound, if this is true and not fiction o! This is one secret you might have to die with. Some things are better left unsaid. I am not condoning your actions in anyway, but this is too heavy. And if you think you want to tell the truth, then just be ready to end the relationship and find someone else. Iyan ogun odun ama jo ni lowo feli feli... we all have to be cautious of our actions, cos it might end up being our biggest nightmare. Goodluck on this one!
Do I hear u say that the man in question is dead? Why do u want to spoil ur home? Somethings are better left unsaid..basket mouth, go and tell ur hubby and see ur self back home..smh
Please let it go with d dead man.. leave ur life nd b happy no need telln him, cos evn if he still marries u after telln him he'll use it as a song 4u whnevr u hv issues @hm. Am sure u dnt wnt that so let sleeping dogs lie pls
Conscience. Will kill you if you don't. Say it n be ready for the outcome. If it ends move on with life. Be careful and be sure of the kind of person he is before continuuing with him, that he will not use it against you later in ife.
.Woah its like a frog swallowing a cow.Telling him would be d best option because it is said that *the 3 things that cannot be hidden are the sun, the moon and the truth.It would even amaze you when the long hidden secret would surface.so if he truly loves you, he wont take it serious especially now that his father is no more.
My dear you better leave your past in your past and move on with your life. I bet you that dude will drop you like a bad habit if you tell him. Good luck
Ode nie. Mumu u better keep that shit to yourself. Are u kidding me. Tell him bawo. Abeg no try am ooo. Drink garri and peak milk me on top of that shit and sleep. Best of luck
Girl u beta shut ur mouth o!u shud even be grateful dat d man is dead,dat is 2 ur own advantage so jst keep calm nd let it remain dat way unless u want to kiss ur relationship gud bye#namyownbedat#
Girl u beta shut ur mouth o!u shud even be grateful dat d man is dead,dat is 2 ur own advantage so jst keep calm nd let it remain dat way unless u want to kiss ur relationship gud bye#namyownbedat#
Hey my goodness what is happening 2 our girls hey hey hey how many times did I do dat? Don't try it or do u want 2 die? Do u no spirit is still exists? Our girls don't want 2 struggle follow any boy anymore. kai is a pity mtcheeeew
What kind of question is this sef? U jst dey find story... y will u tell him. God saved u frm disgrace despite your promiscuity and u want to expose yourself. Go ahead na!
Hey my goodness what is happening 2 our girls hey hey hey how many times did I do dat? Don't try it or do u want 2 die? Do u no spirit is still exists? Our girls don't want 2 struggle follow any boy anymore. kai is a pity mtcheeeew
Pls tell him cos if u don't, one way or the other he'll know. Funny thing is he might not even be finding you out, he could just stumble on it. It'ks a good thing the man is dead sef, makes it easier for you to tell him.
My dear since he is dead and d relationship was discreet I suggest u leave it at dat, first telling him d truth would spoil d memory he has of his father and secondly even if he forgives u he would not forget so some truth are better imagined dan told.... Just saying
Its the same sad endings for girls who date other peoples husband. Its best you tell him now, if he does not get married to youn then fine..if you don't now, while married you'll keep getting the guilty consciences...right every wrong now.
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1 – 200 of 512 Newer› Newest»Dear linda ikeji, where do you get this stories from, this sounds like a very bad nigerian movies staring omotola and jim iyke.
99 percent of nigerian girls are whores,period
See Gobe...Ti e ba e
Dont try it...........
Dear, make peace with God and move on,ok, u had a gory past buh u deserve to be happy...telling him will ruin it all
Hmmm....this one is kinda hard... tell him abt it because u may think ur secret is safe since d man's dead but secrets have a way of coming to light one way or the other... wish u luck in whatever u decide to do tho
Just kill urself
Mumu tell him fool,na men o he wil deal wit u wit it
tell that nigger so you'll feel guilty for the rest of your life. better still, end it or it will be called an incestuous relationship when you marry him
Just come clean babes
Nemesis calling stupid girl! Same will before all of you young girls fooling around with married men cos of money...
GERROUT IDIOT!
I don vex sef!!
~MOT~
Pls my dear dnt tell him,its gud the man is late else it would be ok,u dated him wen u were much younger,if u tell hw do u think ur fiance nd ur mother in-law will see u as,it as things dat happen in life,gud luck wit ur decision.
Don't! ... leave things the way they are.
The man is dead.... no srz ties, i say dont tell him. However, if it ever comes up in the future, that marriage may end.
#reallifeissues. #tough1
Go with ur guts.
Pray abt it & ask God 2 guide u.
forget about it my dear, NO go put sand for ur garri o.
its all in the past, let the past be the past.
If d man is dead den plsssss forget it! Don't make d mistake of telln him oo! Nuff said *drops mic*
Don't tell him n if possible delete it from ur own memory 2 avoid stories dat touch #wakapass#
Gal forget abt telln him anytin, d guy is dead and the issue is dead o...unless u dnt wnt to marry o....u knw guys they cn take tins to d extreme o
This how you girls go about doing sheet if you tell him he will get your ass dump #bright bravo#
Abeg no talk o. You wan put sand sand in your garri? The man don die so you are safe.
if you tell him, the man is gone, if you dont, the secret will eat you alive or one day u guys will worry and it slips your lips. still the man will be gone. damn karma is a bitch
ehheeennn are you mad ?! tell him for what ?! don't destroy your happy life with your own hands just keep shut
Since the man is late, let it die. Just shut up.
Just forget about it girl... At least the man is dead and dont wake the sleeping dog oooooo
Pls 4get abt it no man wants to marry a girl dat has banged his dad
Past is Past.. Jus die the matter..
Its something that would never leave his head once he knows.
Nne if u want ur marriage to last den 4get evrytin abt ur past..which love have no secret?who told u dat 1?..sumtins are better left unsaid..tank me later
No dear...dont tell him...some secrets r not meant 2 b told in a relatnshp
Hehee! Nne respect ur self, nd SHUT UR TRAP! Wat are u telling d guy for?
I suppose yu tell him b4 it starts hunting yu in the future.....
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If u are stupid and want to remain single all your life, tell him. The man is dead, your secret is in the grave; y do u want to damage urself and ur relationship?
You better shut up. What kind of mumu question is this? You dey crase? Just enjoy your relationship and keep quiet
Nne ibu onye iberibe. Some one thts late, tell him and ur marriage Is gone
Abeg the the past stay in the past jhoor! Am not encouraging other younger babes to follow ur dirty footsteps oh but in this case , there are some secrets that are better left buried if u want ur so called to last the test of trust... #myopinion#
I don't know if you should tell him or not, but experience has shown that its always very wise to tell whoever you are going to date or probably get married to everything about your past, me as a man personally if I get to know later during the marriage, it will not be palatable, same goes for most guys, if he found out later about your dirty past, or someone tell him it will be hard for him to believe you, and the trust he has for you will be bruised,
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This is tricky. But, to satisfy your conscience, I think you should. If he loves you enough, he'd stay. Wish you the best.
Why telling him when the man is dead?i dont think u should tell him unless some people knew about it and they can tell ur bf later
This should be acted like a movie....... Any interested writer should make a script immediately.....
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Mtchew dis one Na film story jare. And if it real u beta don't tell him cos if u do there goes Ur relationship. Which man would want to married his late father's lover? My friend be wise o
Let sleeping dogs lie.....THE END!!!
Law or KARMA.....it has a way of turning back 2 dos who dinned with her in d past.....as i will say......FOREVER is TOO LONG for some1 to live unhappy
Hey you dummy poster can u please keep your smelly mouth shut and face your new life.what d freaky heck do u need to tell him 4?my dear some things should be left unsaid...wat Eva happened btw u and his dad is history pls bury it and move on abeggg.lucky u d man is gone so y spill?pls pls pls and pls don't let anyone try to preach to u about Doing it 4 God.God gave u brains,so pls use it..If u ever feel d need to talk about it,talk to God,he's d best listener...also ur mirror will listen...keep ur mouth shut and let ur little secret go with u to ur grave....never commented before on dis blog even though I visit daily but couldn't just let dis go without my 2 cents...good luck with ur life....
His ghost will hunt you in your sleep o,you better tell his son and spoil your life....Mumu as if the old man left the secret in his will...
Better keep your kpomo lips sealed
My dear dnt tell him, I think it should be ur own little secret
Yes u shud, if his d understanding type, he wont do anytin......
Depends on u and depends on how much love dis young guy ve for u if the love is not as strong as u think. Start looking for another one who will take u serious. Past is past focus on ur future
Seriously??... U shuld prolly let sleeping dog lie....
My dear u better dont re open old wounds... Of which d man is late so wats your problem? Biko have a wonderful life ahead
Whoa !!!! Telling him the truth seems so hard right now but if u are sure he is the one u want to spend the rest of ur life with and u love him open up to him and tell him..... Don't think u know how he will react ...... Pray about it and be honest ...... If he truly loves u he should respect ur honesty ..... Most importantly pray about it and let God show u how to go about this....
Forget abt it but ask God for 4gvnz..
It's up to you, can you live with that kind of a secret for the rest of ur life? On the other hand bear it in mind that it will be almost impossible for any man to go ahead and marry you after u slept with his dad. On the other hand, simply break up with the guy and keep ur story to urself.
just don't tell him anything because if you do, the truth wil hurt you...move with your life
Dis one na ode o...u wanto tell him u dated his late dad?mumu of d highest order. U better let d secret stay buried with his dad
Hmmmmm, on one hand,its a risk my dear cos he is gonna hate u for life. Guys don't always appreciate girls dat are truthful. On the other hand, if u did not tell him,the thought is gonna hurt u for d rest of ur life. In summary,before telling him, pray to God to soften his heart so dat he can forgive u and appreciate u d more for telling him d truth. Goodluck
Dont tel him. D man is dead. Just put it behind u
This sounds like nollywood movie, Linda dear! Are u sure this is not a script from a Nollywood movie? It doesn't sound real
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Big HIAN!
Cara
Na u sabi. Ur cup of tea
It is said that a secret can only be kept between two people when one is dead. In your case that literally is the case. Keep ur frigging mouth shut and stop opening ur fucking legs for money in future.
The choice is yours. Tell him and loose him or zip your mouth and get married
U don't have to talk since hez late
U shud tell him..if u truly love him n he truly loves u too
Wot if u get to meet som1 dt knew u wit his dad wen he was still alive
So tell him ursef first b4 he gets to know from an outsider
The man is dead??? Please forget that secret! It died with the baba.
pls tell him before he find out from someone else
i hate you already, it shows what our women keep as secrets. why go into such a marriage? even if he never knows, are you not wary of karma? what if your kids are imbeciles? then you'll be blaming God. if you love him and want a bright future in your marriage to him, confess, what will be will be. capiche?
if the relationship is discreet as you said and sure no one else knows your relationship with the late father, no need to tell him as he will definitely thinks you enjoy older men. Keep the secret and move on. But if you know you will do such again you better tell him.
I think you tell him cos clearly it bother's you and u can't get it out of ur mind if u don't tell him it will eat u up n you won't end up enjoying your marriage because you will thinking about the day he'll find out and trust me he will eventually. Clear d air if its true love he'll still stick to u. Shalom
U bEtter shut that ur mouth and let God shut it for u, cause if u tell him, he won't forget about it and thank ur stars that the man is dead, and ur relationship with him was so discret, non of his friends know u. Congrats, just enjoy ursef.
HAYJAY says so VIA TECNO
Please please shut up your mouth since the man is dead..Just pray to God to forgive you and never go back to such sin again...
Tell him nw b4 its too late
U sef just wan type send to Linda! Rest jur. U guys were discrete n d man is evn late why not allow sleeping dogs lie. Mtshewwww.
My dear keeep ur mouth shut, since no body knew abt it, let it b ur life secret dats all
hmmmm singing Fela's Palaver. "when trouble sleep yanga go wake am,na wetine dey findooo? palaver you dey find"
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
Ibu ewu. Y will u tell him wen u know d man is late. Oya tell him na and see wat will hapen
the best thing is to tell him...secrets dont last for too long and if he should find out on his own....thats gon be very painful...tell him once and for all
You better shut your mouth and pretend nothing happened! He is dead right? Then allow him rest in peace biko.
This is really tricky,there is a high probability he would dump u once u tell him!
U dont need to raise a dust over it since d man is dead okay, just keep that to ur self as an eternal secret and an experience worth living for
o young lady wat have u done....i guess d kno wat to do u just want a push....so here is ti..tell ur man as soon as possible,its gonna take d grace of God though...
Wat is wrong with u? Ok y do u want to tell him? So dat wetin go happen? Abeg let d dead remain dead. C me c wahala. U wan put urself for trouble. Enjoy ur marriage abeg. Except u nor luv d guy. Anytym he is even talking about his late father, pretend to knw ntin about him. Shekena!!!! Take ur tymooooooooo, c ur very stupid question. Linda next news abeg
My dear, just die wiv it as a secret. Do not tell any of your friends or family.
Don't tell him cos d dad is late,my dear der re some secret u keep so to sustain ur rltship..
Go tell am naa mumu! Ode! U want to destroy d memory of his dad in his head. Abeg oloshi carry ur wahala go incase if u r tired of d man.Just let d dead bury themselve.
You better shut your mouth up if you love yourself
Hahaha... dis is no true jor. But its cool doh.
NNE, WE MUSTN'T TELL EVERYTHING. YOU MADE A MISTAKE AND NOW YOU'RE OLDER AND WISER. WHAT HE DOESN'T KNOW WON'T HURT HIM, EXCEPT OF COURSE HE EXPLICITLY ASKS YOU ABOUT HIM, THEN FEEL FREE TO CONFESS...BUT I'D SAY, LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE...ABI HOW OYIBO DEY TALK AM
For wat na...except u ready 2 lose him sha...I prefer u dnt tell him unless som of hez frnds knew u
Babe, are you daft or just plain stupid? Listen and listen real good, NO MAN, no matter how much he claims to love you will continue to stay with you if he finds out you dated his Dad,dead or alive. .even if you carry gold for body. .this is one of the reasons why girls are advised to stay away from married men, cuz you don't know who you'll marry tomorrow. Anyway, I'm not about to judge you cuz I don't know your financial background or why you did it
forget it
..........just forgerrit
Nne pls keep your mouth shut! How will he handle the fact that u screwed his dad??? Jeeez!! Ur lucky the man is dead else ur relationship wil hav been jeopardized.
My daysss!!!!!! Hahahahah, never seen a situation that best describes the word Karma, Karma has no menu indeed, you're served what you deserve, good for you then. But not that I support your past chosen business, but telling this guy makes no different, no guy will take that, I won't marry a man that has hitted my mum, so if he has the slightest idea, that's the end, to me it makes no difference, telling him now won't avert the history that his dad hitted u, u can confess later in future, or confess if only you believe you are the one that can't survive in that habitat and u want to leave. But wait o! How are you going to live with that, better find your way and let that poor innocent boy go, and go get another man
Pls forget abt it since he's dead. How do u think he wld feel if u tel him? What would it change if he knows?! Nothing... So personally I don't see the need. he is better off not knowing. Trust me
Don't ever mention it to any one. Just ask 4 d forgiveness from God
Don't even try it o... Hmm... Let d past remain in d past, since d man is already dead
Please burn the bridge behind you and move on....
erm...I suggest u keep ur sweet mouth shut!!!! He's dead and gone with the secret except of course someone else knows..but pls be quiet about it...
if my babe tells me dat its ova, how my papa go chop nd i come marry am. even if na jst my guy don chop sef i'll stl think twice.
Babe, u know wot? Every saint has a past & every sinner has a hope of repentance...a past remains a past, after all, u weren't a virgin wen he met u, so def, some random persons must av fucked u.
talk wetin>>>>don't just try it move on with life....such is life
Please forget about it, the man is dead
Who cares...
Were you dating уᵒᵘʳ ancestor dis geh?! @ dat age u date a man ✓ enough to be уᵒᵘʳ father! #odiegwuooo
Dont tell just forget it since it is your past moreover the dad is dead so forget it
Dont tell just forget it since it is your past moreover the dad is dead so forget it
Huh?!?!?! If I hear.... Don't bother 2 tell him since d man is dead, cuz d he's neva gonna trust u again. Even ur mother-in-law will dislike u...if she gets 2 knw. So, jst can it.
Is nt necessary again as far as d man is dead
Keep it a secret since the man is dead because if you tell him I ain't sure that marriage will work.
Y do some ppl ask stupid questions???? ODE tell him now....sooo if he once dated ur mum n she's dead u'll be cool with it right. My dear let d past bi d past, u don't have 2drag it 2ur present life. @tymz u keep somtynz away from somone u care not jst cuz u want 2, but 2 protect dem.
Your lucky he's dead. DO NOT tell him it'll be difficult but don't cos it'll end d relationship
That one na u bizness ashawo kobokobo. TESSY
Τ̅Ħ̀ε̅ past should ßε̲̣ left in Ï„̅Ħ̀ε̅ past
Plz don't swthrt.. He might not understand. Keep it a secret, its good he is late now. CLIP...
@ miss 22yrs, I think this уᵒᵘʳ question should be directed to google instead! #smh
When you are advise not to date sugar daddy, you fink you kn it all. I will advise you to reprieve from your old ways and i am sure ur relationship is about to be ruined because you will see a lot of complicated advise here
If u like, that's solely ur decision to take. U know d man u are engaged to, u know the kind of family he comes from so Pls take ur decision.
Tell him.
I wouldnt suggest you keep secret while entering into marriage, so that guilty conscience wil not kill you before your time, except you dont have conscience.
Is better he marries you for who you are than for him to discover this from another source. I know telling him is not going to be easy but it is pertinent.
you're lucky the father is late
It depends on the awareness u created wen dating dis old man ...if u tink ur husband will in anyway finds out its beta u tell him urself...but if he cannot 4get it nd move on...@daanifex
I think you will be crazy to tell him. It was nothing and the dude is dead. Make peace with you God and let sleeping dogs lie.
♡ conquers all but not in this case. Tell †Ñ’ξ guy & I bet you that will be †Ñ’ξ end of уᵒᵘʳ relationship with him!!!
Lol...if u really want to get married to him,dnt tell him cos he might tell his mother. No woman forgives the lady her husband cheated on her with even if he's dead or alive...she will probably not allow the marriage n even if she does, she will probably give u hell in the marriage.. N how do u think ur to-be husband would feel, knowing u slept with his father?? Since the father is dead, I suggest u SEAL ur mouth n take the secret to ur grave..ask God for forgivness tho. Linda ikeji !! Post my comment ooooo
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Forget it...and live ur life..since he didn't ask cos dere might be trouble if he knws the truth..
Darling, you are lucky the man is dead. Do not tell your husband anything! Just live your life, be happy and abeg, leave the man make he rest.
Ewu Gambia!if u like don't keep ur mouth shut and mind ur relationship!
Forget it and live ur life
Girl, take it to your grave. Do not tell him.
Tell him dear....it will always hunt you if you dont.
Is that a question? Where his father has dipped, the son will dip? Do you want your kids to become cursed? Do you think you will not see yourself as a competitor to his mother? Really silly question. Leave the innocent boy alone. You were a prostitute foryou to not know anything about the man.
Forget it joor, if I hear say I tell d guy anything, d man dey alive sef I no how I go still package d story, how much more say e don die... These dayz wey husband no dey, I pray ooooooooo!!!
Girl. I am a believer of morals and true personality but death has made it lucky for u. Don't tell ur husband 2 be. Dats karma on the part of ur former sugar daddy. Enjoy ur life and makeup for any mistakes you av made in the past. Shikena
Lmao! See nollywood oo. I honestly thought this only happens in nollywood lol so it's actually real. Lmao my dear I don't know oo, because if u tell him that means you have definitely gone on the bad side of the mum. Lol i am sorry I can't help
NO NEED, COS DATS ALREADY IN THE PAST, SO LET IT BE IN THE PAST. AND BESIDES THE MAN IS DEAD. IF YOUR CONSCIENCE IS STILL BOTHERING YOU, JUST PRAY TO GOD, CONFESS YOUR SINS AND BELIEVE HE HAS FORGIVING YOU
Please don't cus he will definitely use it against you someday.on rapture day the truth will come out
Your deeds have a way of catching up to you. Don't know if you should tell him. Not telling him and keeping it a secret will always eat u up though.
hmm. since the man is no more, you should have no fears. but what about his dad's friends. i'm quite sure a few would recognise you. if i were, i would tell him. love understands. we all have a past.
Are you a LEANER?
I suggest you tell him,you never can tell when the old feelings will ignite and your 52yr ex will ask for the usual.
Thank God d man is dead.don't ever tell ur spouse oh unless u want d relationship to break up.some secrets are better carried to d grave and dis is one of them!
hmm. since the man is no more, you should have no fears. but what about his dad's friends. i'm quite sure a few would recognise you. if i were, i would tell him. love understands. we all have a past.
My dear, it's even written in the bible.. old things have passed away. Let sleeping dogs lie. Enjoy your man
Are u a fool?he's dead nd u stil want to tell?hw wuld u feel if he slept with ur mum before u met him?is dat sumtinn u want to knw
tell nollywood
The heart of a woman is as deep as the ocean. So you won chop papa and son and your conscience will withstand it!!! May God continue to save us. For sure you will still pretend to the guy that he is probably the first guy you are meeting or rather that you lost your vaginity during sports in secondary school. Hmmmmmm!
its either u stop talking to him or u dont tell him. the man is dead now. but then what if he wasnt so discreet and down d line d boo finds out...
R u High? Sew ur mouth jare,na force 2 b saint? Tel him nd loose em,e b like sey u no kw sey na naija boi u wan marry.... His dad is dead nd gone wif d secret so die wif urs.
Tell him d truth bt set ur mind 4 d worse cos he mite brk up wt u #fact#
If u know what's good for u..pls tel him immediately...don't let dis end up like dose home videos..
She should disregard, since the person in question is late.
U better tell him now b4 its 2 late
Sallysmart
Tarrrrh don't tell him oh....worst case scenario the father is dead...if your sure you want to marry babe marry him with secret....only that secret won't make you love him less
Tell me
Sweetie of Life,
Since u re about to marry him, u should know if he can see u as d same woman he fell in love with or he'll be swayed with the information and ur relationship will be in jeopardy. At a point u should have told him about your past if you really feel like honesty is what you want, so no big deal telling him it his dad, it ll take a while but he ll get over it like he got over it then. However if you havent, dont deceive urself. Am sure dere is a reason y u didnt and dat reason still stands. Keep ur mind on sometyn else and pray a lot that things done in the dark dont come to light
As crazy as it may sound, if this is true and not fiction o! This is one secret you might have to die with. Some things are better left unsaid. I am not condoning your actions in anyway, but this is too heavy. And if you think you want to tell the truth, then just be ready to end the relationship and find someone else. Iyan ogun odun ama jo ni lowo feli feli... we all have to be cautious of our actions, cos it might end up being our biggest nightmare. Goodluck on this one!
Oh girl tell him ooo 2 avoid problems
Do I hear u say that the man in question is dead? Why do u want to spoil ur home? Somethings are better left unsaid..basket mouth, go and tell ur hubby and see ur self back home..smh
Please let it go with d dead man.. leave ur life nd b happy no need telln him, cos evn if he still marries u after telln him he'll use it as a song 4u whnevr u hv issues @hm. Am sure u dnt wnt that so let sleeping dogs lie pls
Forget it... the man is dead!
Pls tell him bcos even u too won't b comfortable in d home with him
Tell him the truth it. Will save. Your marriag ok
Dont mention it.
Dont tell
Ode! Try am na, d guy go flee. Shebi u say d sugar daddy is late? Ur past with the so called sugar daddy should be late as well.
Are you learner?please forget it about and your relationship with the young man.Thought by dating and older you would have been smarter by now,haba!
U hav to tell him.d past is after u.irony of life sorry.
You better don't be stupid. Don't tell him anything. Respect the late man's wishes. Don't let them hate the dead man.
telling him would e better,so you won't have any issue concerning this later in future.
My dear ur past is ur past , let it stay there cos this kind story will destroy his love for u
yeah, i think you should tell him, in order to avoid any problem with your lover concerning this issue in future.
sister pls forget about it and move on, the man is dead. let sleeping dogs lie abeg.
Conscience. Will kill you if you don't. Say it n be ready for the outcome. If it ends move on with life. Be careful and be sure of the kind of person he is before continuuing with him, that he will not use it against you later in ife.
Omo babe,wat he doesn't know won't kill him....pls save ur handsome lover d heartache!
What goes around, comes back around
.Woah its like a frog swallowing a cow.Telling him would be d best option because it is said that *the 3 things that cannot be hidden are the sun, the moon and the truth.It would even amaze you when the long hidden secret would surface.so if he truly loves you, he wont take it serious especially now that his father is no more.
Telling him will surely wreck ur relationship the man is dead so your secret is safe
My dear you better leave your past in your past and move on with your life. I bet you that dude will drop you like a bad habit if you tell him. Good luck
Ode nie. Mumu u better keep that shit to yourself. Are u kidding me. Tell him bawo. Abeg no try am ooo. Drink garri and peak milk me on top of that shit and sleep. Best of luck
Poster go to your grave with that secret men are not like we women who forgives and forget. He will definately use it against u sm day.
If u luv him & u want to marry him don't tell him
So stories we listen 2 on radio truely happens hummmmmmmm my dear sis I will advise u. Nt 2 tell him
Girl u beta shut ur mouth o!u shud even be grateful dat d man is dead,dat is 2 ur own advantage so jst keep calm nd let it remain dat way unless u want to kiss ur relationship gud bye#namyownbedat#
Girl u beta shut ur mouth o!u shud even be grateful dat d man is dead,dat is 2 ur own advantage so jst keep calm nd let it remain dat way unless u want to kiss ur relationship gud bye#namyownbedat#
Sweet heart don't tell him anything forget it even happened as long as his dead nobody will know it betta dat way my dear
Hey my goodness what is happening 2 our girls hey hey hey how many times did I do dat? Don't try it or do u want 2 die? Do u no spirit is still exists? Our girls don't want 2 struggle follow any boy anymore. kai is a pity mtcheeeew
What kind of question is this sef? U jst dey find story... y will u tell him. God saved u frm disgrace despite your promiscuity and u want to expose yourself. Go ahead na!
My dear just forget abt
Ha ha ha this one pass me o...
Hey my goodness what is happening 2 our girls hey hey hey how many times did I do dat? Don't try it or do u want 2 die? Do u no spirit is still exists? Our girls don't want 2 struggle follow any boy anymore. kai is a pity mtcheeeew
U said LATE DAD, abeg no talk am out, everyone has a secret, keep dis one with u perhaps na 4 ur past u met his dad. Unless u won remain Single.
Pls tell him cos if u don't, one way or the other he'll know. Funny thing is he might not even be finding you out, he could just stumble on it. It'ks a good thing the man is dead sef, makes it easier for you to tell him.
lol Nigerian lives are like soap opera, sorry but you have to tell him
My dear since he is dead and d relationship was discreet I suggest u leave it at dat, first telling him d truth would spoil d memory he has of his father and secondly even if he forgives u he would not forget so some truth are better imagined dan told.... Just saying
Eeeeeek !!!karma is a biatch !!!!runs gone bad....telll him after marriage...
My dear, it so happens that life, the universe too, has just simplified things for you- Forget about it.
Let the past be past and the dead, dead.
Mumu,talk nah! Your news go be 4 linda ikeji blog as high court go dey judge ur case,MUMU sorry,YEYE
Its the same sad endings for girls who date other peoples husband. Its best you tell him now, if he does not get married to youn then fine..if you don't now, while married you'll keep getting the guilty consciences...right every wrong now.
Are u alright!?
My dear, it so happens that life, the universe too, has just simplified things for you- Forget about it.
Let the past be past and the dead, dead.
looool gurrl yous a hoe hoe hoeeee! loool plus if you tell him he would leave you. i dont think anyone wants someone their parent has been with....
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