While I was in school, I was 22 when I dated a 52 year old very rich man
because I needed his money. He made sure we were as discreet as
possible and I never got to know anything about him or his family, I only
knew his name.
Fast-forward to seven years later, I met this gorgeous gentleman who
has shown interest in taking me as his wife. Now
he took me home to his mum and I discovered his late dad was my former
sugar lover.
Do I tell him the truth as regards my relationship with his dad since love has no secrets or forget about it since the man is dead?
DO NOT TELL HIM OOO THAT IS if you truly love him and never want to lose him. Life has handled everything for you so it is up to you to keep it that way. You are very lucky for life to be able to clean up your mess nicely so PLEASE DON'T RUIN IT. Those telling you to tell him truly don't care for your best interest so please don't listen to them.SOME THINGS ARE BETTER OFF LEFT IN THE PAST and this is definitely one of them, just focus on being a good woman from now on and move on from that. I REALLY HOPE YOU SEE MY COMMENT SHA.
Dis tori na real pure water. U either hunted for ur lover son after he died or you are not telling the truth or maybe Linda jos manufactured dis write up.
Don't tell him and don't continue with relationship. Find a reason to cut yourself loose and move on. One day it will definitely come out in the open. Once you tie the Knot that will be the day you know that the relationship you described as very covert was really not. So my dear just take off you will definitely find someone. Goodluck!!!
Women are Women's problem.. If she doesnt tell him now.. One of her friends that knew when she was dating the guys father would squil sooner or later.. So better say and be over with..
Tell am 4 wetin ehen?. If u try am na him be say u be big GBOEE. Wat use d man is dead case closed. If u must tell him, oya begin carry ur finance 2 all ur former boyfriend wen done AKPAKO u.
I believe d percentage is not up 2 that, there are some girls who are still decent. It depends on what u've done with every girl that come across ur path.
In a perfect world where everyone was as perfect as the first drop of snow on earth :P, you would tell him but we ain't perfect. This man is dead and has taken the secret with him to the grave and you should too unless you don't want the guy sha. Pls use sense before you open your mouth. As my people say, it's not everything the eyes the see that the mouth will say.
Wetin person knw go see for dis life, u slept with papa and now u want marry the son, you know fear Curse,if you love yourself, just leave that guy....but tell him the reason you want to leave him,even if he insist he will still marry you,please don't cos he will sing it as song to you for the rest of your life when you guys have misunderstanding.....for the sake of Dignity left in you....you know the right thing to do, don't think of today, thing of tomorrow...if you get married to him and anytime he has Financial problem and you are able to raise some fund, he will always think you are sleeping with older men.......please think about it delegently
Everybody is saying u shouldn't tell him but I feel you should tell him bcos there's nothing like a free conscience and its better for your relationship to be broken now that to be broken in the future when you have kids already. The truth can never be hidden forever
my dear it is best you let him in of that little seceret now and let him react today before he comes to find out tomorrow and tear your whole life apart, dont forget what will be will be
MUMU GIRL, FUCK THE GUY THE WAY YOU FUCK THE FATHER WEN HE WAS ALIVE.IDIOT YOU WANT PPL OPINION WEN YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH THE OLD MAN DID YOU SEEK FOR OPINION NEMESIS WILL CATCH UP ON YOU IF YOU END UP MARRING THE GUY COS THE GHOST OF THE BOYS FATHER WILL HURT YOU TO DEATH ODE ASHEWO KOBOKOBO.AHAAHA ALL DIS NAIJA BABE YOU CAN NOT EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT.ENTER THE MARRIAG YOU WILL SEE WOT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU.IN FIVE WORDS.YOU WILL NEVER LAST.GOD BLESS NIGERIA.
Is ur fiance's mother still alive?. If she's alive & u tell him he will surely tell his mothetr & wen dat happens my sister 4gt d marriage bcos she will do everytin nt 2 make her son marry u no matter d am sorry, pls 4gv me, trust woman. Na him be say marriage don crash be dat oioo lobatan. I beg kip am 2 urslf ooo oko won l'ode oioioi.
oya tell him nah idiot!you better move on with your life and dont say kpim. Im sure if your fiance has sister, she was probably doing the same thing with her boyfriend's father.but come oo see what u haff cauz yousef nah,tori owo, can you see it.mitscheewww awon ashawo jatijati!
hahahaha....just thank God that your father inlaw is dead. keep your mouth shout, lock the story to your history with your father inlaw and throw away the keys.....honey dont even attempt to tell your boyfriend, there is nothing like true love in this case. the evidence is DEAD. so let the story die with him. face your future and forget the past.
oooh, and dont tell your friends or anyone cuz you never know, they might end up being the one who fu*k you over sometime in the future.
Dont tell him it wll ruin evrthng. my hubby know my ex bf who thy hapen to have gon to the same uni. you will nt blve it, bt my hubby hates the thot tht my ex saw my punani! it clings his mind as if i cheated on him!! Men's feelings can nvr be tempered, so bettr keep tht drty secrt of yours
I'D Say You should keep it to yourself but nothings ever hidden under the Sun one Day he would find out so just Tell him , Theres no Guarantee he will remain with you but u would have satisfied ur conscience
Those of you insulting her here have probably done worse or are still doing them. So pls quit judging her. My dear, don't tell him o! Your relationship will never be the same even if he forgives you and decides to go ahead and marry you. Checklist before you say I do on omalichaspeaks.blogspot.com
If you care about this man, do not bring up this issue ever. If you could not live with your past without rubbing the mud of it on the young man, run away and forget the marriage.
Let me use this opportunity to state that it is wrong to call the sexual relationship men and women have as dating. Dating is getting to know someone in consideration of having such as a person as a spouse. It has nothing to do with whorish men who are looking for who to have animal sexual intercourse with. It is nothing to do with whorish ladies and girls who are looking for money for clothes, school fees and other maintenance.
This woman and others like her, what you did with this man is being prostitutes. While you were exchanging your body for money, the man was exchanging his money for sex. It is not dating. Same goes for all the high profile "dating" by stars - actors and actresses, soccre stars, musical stars - who break the stories of dating so-so and so person or persons. They are not dating. They are merely sexual partners and not dating partners.
tell him and i bet you lady, that will be the end of your marriage the old man is dead and nobodiy knew you wiv him so just leave things the way they are ooooo unless say you sef no wan marry the dude
Don't tell him you'll be surprised by the sudden hatred he'll have for you if you do. I bet he dint want his family to know that's why he was secretive. He's dead let it go.
Babe, tell him...... If he loves you enough to keep you as his wife, he will still marry you..... Mind you, it happened 7 years ago and you had ur reason(s)......And get prepared for the worst cos its either he accepts you the way you are or u find urself anoda man..... but all the same, it's worth telling him....Pray before u do...... We all got skeletons in our cupboards.....
Ask God for forgiveness, He will purge you of all iniquities. Accept to live the rest of your life with the stigma of "nacking" father and son! as for telling the young man, u don't need to, except you are no longer interested in hooking up permanently with him! If u do, I bet you, he will abscond and kiss you good bye! Love no reach that oneooooooo!
I Hate Dump bitches! Your Ass is so Lucky the man is dead...you wanna ruin your own future? My friend all you need to do is pray to God for forgiveness.And i want to believe you've stopped dating your father's mates....Now Use your head and shut the hell up!
my dear to fulfill all righteousness u had better tell him, if ur conscience has not dead. my fellow singles girls, culd u people pleas stop going out with married men? suppose this girl didn't date this man she wouldn't have find her self in this mess. how will u feel if u cut someone dating your husband? do to others that which u want others to do to u. now look at what this had put the girl into,
Truth is bitter. Since the old man has passed on, bury this particular 'truth' with him and move on with your life. If however your conscience cannot let you enjoy the marriage (which is possible), I will suggest you look else where for a husband. You are not alone in this kind of dilemma.
Una wey dey call person hoe! Wetin una be? Re u better of,mtchewwwwww/my dear keep ur secret 2 urself and be happy,u re a change person and God knows that and have also 4given U.it b/w u and God now,for some secret must surely follow u 2 d grave. U have done nothing out of the ordinary,u dated the man 7years before meeting him.its in the past nd let it remain let that. Shekina and forr those of u calling her name u re better, some of have worst secret than this and u haven't told anyone yet u want anoda 2 tell her own. Fool #owukaAnu#
Girl, my candid advice is: tell him; things can still get better now. If you marry him and latter issues crop up, you will definitely loos him, so it is better to loose him now (if he wants to go), and u can still find some else to marry than later when no man want to marry 'an after one'. SO TELL HIM!
you had better tell him. you think you were secretive enough,imagine if there was someone that knew.He will definitely find out.So tell him.Better a failed relationship than a failed marriage
When you have kids atleas you willknow what they would have looked like at the time you were fucking his dad - relax, sip something! Don't say anything, close your legs from now on but remember since your man is a product of his father, when he hits 52 just make yourself busy with other things because hew will b cheating
Yinmu!!!! Nemesis doesn't always catch up, some peeps go scot free, and some, wen dey say wat dey av done in d past re 4given! Its wen u continue or go back 2 those tings that it defines who u Really are. We. All av done. One ting or d other we re ashamed of! Or, re u d most decent person?
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Lobatan
Just keep your month shout.
Cos that was so yesterday.
I pity you.
na u sabi....................babe come clean
OMG :Singer Waje twerking and Grinding a male fan
Yoy better leave the past to where they belong keep quite don't even try it @ all or else you regret this for d rest of your life.
DO NOT TELL HIM OOO THAT IS if you truly love him and never want to lose him. Life has handled everything for you so it is up to you to keep it that way. You are very lucky for life to be able to clean up your mess nicely so PLEASE DON'T RUIN IT. Those telling you to tell him truly don't care for your best interest so please don't listen to them.SOME THINGS ARE BETTER OFF LEFT IN THE PAST and this is definitely one of them, just focus on being a good woman from now on and move on from that. I REALLY HOPE YOU SEE MY COMMENT SHA.
U try well well,servicing father and son
Andy
Dis tori na real pure water. U either hunted for ur lover son after he died or you are not telling the truth or maybe Linda jos manufactured dis write up.
Lol do people just sit in front a computer screen and think of stories to compose and write you?.. Please
U̶̲̥̅̊ r a witch...wot do U̶̲̥̅̊ wnt him to understand?
Don't tell him and don't continue with relationship. Find a reason to cut yourself loose and move on. One day it will definitely come out in the open. Once you tie the Knot that will be the day you know that the relationship you described as very covert was really not. So my dear just take off you will definitely find someone. Goodluck!!!
Tell am if u don find another husband. Mumu
99 percent include your mother and grandmother and ur daughters!!! Senseless human being
Women are Women's problem.. If she doesnt tell him now.. One of her friends that knew when she was dating the guys father would squil sooner or later.. So better say and be over with..
so you probably knw the brothel ur mum retired frm ASSHOLE
99 percent include your mother and grandmother and ur daughters!!! Senseless human being
Honesty is the best policy
Your mom n sisters included abi?
Honesty will pay
Tell am 4 wetin ehen?. If u try am na him be say u be big GBOEE. Wat use d man is dead case closed. If u must tell him, oya begin carry ur finance 2 all ur former boyfriend wen done AKPAKO u.
U very funny
I believe d percentage is not up 2 that, there are some girls who are still decent. It depends on what u've done with every girl that come across ur path.
You just been stupid for that comment. Your mum, sisters, niece, gf, future wife, daughter etc are whores.... Concentrate
In a perfect world where everyone was as perfect as the first drop of snow on earth :P, you would tell him but we ain't perfect. This man is dead and has taken the secret with him to the grave and you should too unless you don't want the guy sha. Pls use sense before you open your mouth. As my people say, it's not everything the eyes the see that the mouth will say.
Wetin person knw go see for dis life, u slept with papa and now u want marry the son, you know fear Curse,if you love yourself, just leave that guy....but tell him the reason you want to leave him,even if he insist he will still marry you,please don't cos he will sing it as song to you for the rest of your life when you guys have misunderstanding.....for the sake of Dignity left in you....you know the right thing to do, don't think of today, thing of tomorrow...if you get married to him and anytime he has Financial problem and you are able to raise some fund, he will always think you are sleeping with older men.......please think about it delegently
Everybody is saying u shouldn't tell him but I feel you should tell him bcos there's nothing like a free conscience and its better for your relationship to be broken now that to be broken in the future when you have kids already. The truth can never be hidden forever
Linda enough is enough dont let stupid elements sending you these things bore people from ur blog please.
my dear it is best you let him in of that little seceret now and let him react today before he comes to find out tomorrow and tear your whole life apart, dont forget what will be will be
As in... I spent the better part of my day watching yoruba movies and this is just a script ft mercy aigbe and Oga Bello.
Fikky
I will help you convey ur message to him and beg your husband not to slaughter you like chrismass goat.
I will help you convey ur message to him and beg your husband not to slaughter you like chrismass goat.
I will help you convey ur message to him and beg your husband not to slaughter you like chrismass goat.
I will help you convey ur message to him and beg your husband not to slaughter you like chrismass goat.
MUMU GIRL, FUCK THE GUY THE WAY YOU FUCK THE FATHER WEN HE WAS ALIVE.IDIOT YOU WANT PPL OPINION WEN YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH THE OLD MAN DID YOU SEEK FOR OPINION NEMESIS WILL CATCH UP ON YOU IF YOU END UP MARRING THE GUY COS THE GHOST OF THE BOYS FATHER WILL HURT YOU TO DEATH ODE ASHEWO KOBOKOBO.AHAAHA ALL DIS NAIJA BABE YOU CAN NOT EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT.ENTER THE MARRIAG YOU WILL SEE WOT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU.IN FIVE WORDS.YOU WILL NEVER LAST.GOD BLESS NIGERIA.
Is ur fiance's mother still alive?. If she's alive & u tell him he will surely tell his mothetr & wen dat happens my sister 4gt d marriage bcos she will do everytin nt 2 make her son marry u no matter d am sorry, pls 4gv me, trust woman. Na him be say marriage don crash be dat oioo lobatan. I beg kip am 2 urslf ooo oko won l'ode oioioi.
And must come from a family full of them to have such an opinion.
Looooool ever named the actors lmaoooooo
oya tell him nah idiot!you better move on with your life and dont say kpim. Im sure if your fiance has sister, she was probably doing the same thing with her boyfriend's father.but come oo see what u haff cauz yousef nah,tori owo, can you see it.mitscheewww awon ashawo jatijati!
Can u even read? Moron
It is better you talk now!
do not tell him o!! if you can't live with the guilt just find a way out n leave the relationship….some secrets shud only b taken to the grave
N so is ur mum morrafucker!!! Who just sits n categorise all women? Mtcheww
Hun you are one lucky girl, God cleared your mess for you and you are trying to ruin it? Keeping quiet will hurt no one, so shut your trump
Yes they are. All the new generation r going to be marry asewo
That's just a stupid thing to say! you must've lost your damn mind!!! dumbass moron! you sound very whorish!
#ByeFelicia
If you guys truly love each other, I think you should just forget the past and make sure you don't cheat.Since the old man is late.cheers
hang in there and score more goals it could be your destiny,father,son may be mother next.
If you guys truly love each other, I think you should just forget the past and make sure you don't cheat.Since the old man is late.cheers
So is ur mother
And you are? Idiot. Raro
forget it jare. life goes on
Ur generation and d ones after that r whores... u retard!
hahahaha....just thank God that your father inlaw is dead. keep your mouth shout, lock the story to your history with your father inlaw and throw away the keys.....honey dont even attempt to tell your boyfriend, there is nothing like true love in this case. the evidence is DEAD. so let the story die with him. face your future and forget the past.
oooh, and dont tell your friends or anyone cuz you never know, they might end up being the one who fu*k you over sometime in the future.
I dey craze??? Whish love nor get secrets? *side eye*
Dont tell him it wll ruin evrthng. my hubby know my ex bf who thy hapen to have gon to the same uni. you will nt blve it, bt my hubby hates the thot tht my ex saw my punani! it clings his mind as if i cheated on him!! Men's feelings can nvr be tempered, so bettr keep tht drty secrt of yours
I'D Say You should keep it to yourself but nothings ever hidden under the Sun one Day he would find out so just Tell him , Theres no Guarantee he will remain with you but u would have satisfied ur conscience
@Anonymous 5:31 PM. You just confirmed yourself as the most STUPID person on this blog.
Those of you insulting her here have probably done worse or are still doing them. So pls quit judging her. My dear, don't tell him o! Your relationship will never be the same even if he forgives you and decides to go ahead and marry you. Checklist before you say I do on omalichaspeaks.blogspot.com
If you care about this man, do not bring up this issue ever. If you could not live with your past without rubbing the mud of it on the young man, run away and forget the marriage.
Let me use this opportunity to state that it is wrong to call the sexual relationship men and women have as dating. Dating is getting to know someone in consideration of having such as a person as a spouse. It has nothing to do with whorish men who are looking for who to have animal sexual intercourse with. It is nothing to do with whorish ladies and girls who are looking for money for clothes, school fees and other maintenance.
This woman and others like her, what you did with this man is being prostitutes. While you were exchanging your body for money, the man was exchanging his money for sex. It is not dating. Same goes for all the high profile "dating" by stars - actors and actresses, soccre stars, musical stars - who break the stories of dating so-so and so person or persons. They are not dating. They are merely sexual partners and not dating partners.
tell him and i bet you lady, that will be the end of your marriage the old man is dead and nobodiy knew you wiv him so just leave things the way they are ooooo unless say you sef no wan marry the dude
Except the dead can rise and talk,then tell am...mumu...but apart from that oo,you better keep quiet and be happy ooo..
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Uhave to make peace with God, before u face ur man with ur kind of history
Hian!!!! Oya na guilt+conscience+love+marriage+secret= ur situation. Bone nd face d guilt or tell him nd loose him mayb....
Come out clean? U go fit take am? Ode!
Don't tell him you'll be surprised by the sudden hatred he'll have for you if you do. I bet he dint want his family to know that's why he was secretive. He's dead let it go.
Mumu! U go fit take am?
U cracked my rib dude..... loooooooooooooool
Mumu na hin be ur first name. Ode! Tell him ko explain to him ni
Dont make d mistake.of telling him.
Wrong advice. Guy u be 'ewu'
Na u dem wan meet abi?
Finds out from u?
So cos she don date im papa b4 n d guy no sabi her future no go bright? U be first class ode!
Babe, tell him...... If he loves you enough to keep you as his wife, he will still marry you..... Mind you, it happened 7 years ago and you had ur reason(s)......And get prepared for the worst cos its either he accepts you the way you are or u find urself anoda man..... but all the same, it's worth telling him....Pray before u do...... We all got skeletons in our cupboards.....
There's no need for that
***Starman***
LOL @ Everyones comment.
Those judging her screw you! Young and silly is not an excuse but things happen.
Then the about to marry lady, its your decision but be prepared for whatever happens.
I will not tell him though, I will forgive myself and moveon. If it bugs you too much find another man, dont marry your sugar-daddy's son.
@ Anon 5:32, including your mother, sisters and aunties abi?
Its a thing of the past, no need of bringing back the past most especially now that he is not alive.
Focus on the present
Ask God for forgiveness, He will purge you of all iniquities. Accept to live the rest of your life with the stigma of "nacking" father and son! as for telling the young man, u don't need to, except you are no longer interested in hooking up permanently with him! If u do, I bet you, he will abscond and kiss you good bye! Love no reach that oneooooooo!
GBAM!!!!!
I Hate Dump bitches! Your Ass is so Lucky the man is dead...you wanna ruin your own future? My friend all you need to do is pray to God for forgiveness.And i want to believe you've stopped dating your father's mates....Now Use your head and shut the hell up!
PRETTY GIRL
let the past be past and move your life telling him may cause catastrophe.
my dear to fulfill all righteousness u had better tell him, if ur conscience has not dead.
my fellow singles girls, culd u people pleas stop going out with married men? suppose this girl didn't date this man she wouldn't have find her self in this mess. how will u feel if u cut someone dating your husband? do to others that which u want others to do to u. now look at what this had put the girl into,
Shua shua u go d date person we fit burn ur papa come d ask pple to advice u wht to talk idiot bcos of money u no well.#Dr Francis#
Shua shua u go d date person we fit burn ur papa come d ask pple to advice u wht to talk idiot bcos of money u no well.#Dr Francis#
Truth is bitter. Since the old man has passed on, bury this particular 'truth' with him and move on with your life. If however your conscience cannot let you enjoy the marriage (which is possible), I will suggest you look else where for a husband. You are not alone in this kind of dilemma.
R u a Learner?
If you dont tell him, your consience will eat you alive. Tell him, if he still wants you good and if he doesn't, then you move on
Una wey dey call person hoe! Wetin una be? Re u better of,mtchewwwwww/my dear keep ur secret 2 urself and be happy,u re a change person and God knows that and have also 4given U.it b/w u and God now,for some secret must surely follow u 2 d grave. U have done nothing out of the ordinary,u dated the man 7years before meeting him.its in the past nd let it remain let that. Shekina and forr those of u calling her name u re better, some of have worst secret than this and u haven't told anyone yet u want anoda 2 tell her own. Fool #owukaAnu#
Well I feel telling him is the right thing to do, because someday somehow the truth will always find its way out....goodluck
ode , go and kill ur career ........................idiot
Better he knows now than when you get married. You can tell and move on (that's if he doesn't want you) or don't tell and still move on.
They say love surpasses all, he might still want you!!
Good luck.
Girl, my candid advice is: tell him; things can still get better now. If you marry him and latter issues crop up, you will definitely loos him, so it is better to loose him now (if he wants to go), and u can still find some else to marry than later when no man want to marry 'an after one'. SO TELL HIM!
Starting with ur mum, grandmother, sisters, aunties, nieces and ur daughters both born and unborn @ Anon 5:32. ODE
It's befall, go to school and lead how to spell then u can come back and start cursing ODE @ Anon 5:35
haha, wonder
Linda cooks these useless stories up. olosi
Talk about karma!
Let dead dogs lie... abi you be kolo
you had better tell him. you think you were secretive enough,imagine if there was someone that knew.He will definitely find out.So tell him.Better a failed relationship than a failed marriage
Forget about telling Him since the Man was late and all dat was done in the past was in discrete.
Forget about telling Him since the Man was late and all dat was done in the past was in discrete.
tell him nothing...guys are all babies...
Ashana
When you have kids atleas you willknow what they would have looked like at the time you were fucking his dad - relax, sip something! Don't say anything, close your legs from now on but remember since your man is a product of his father, when he hits 52 just make yourself busy with other things because hew will b cheating
Whoever call 99 percent of nigerian girls a whore ur mother is a big time whore,my dear don't tell him but is up to u boys every Saint has a past.
Haas
Plus all the ones in your family?
Including ur sister..#nonsense#
Yinmu!!!! Nemesis doesn't always catch up, some peeps go scot free, and some, wen dey say wat dey av done in d past re 4given! Its wen u continue or go back 2 those tings that it defines who u Really are. We. All av done. One ting or d other we re ashamed of! Or, re u d most decent person?
Tell him, but I strongly advise you leave the family.
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