The singer and businesswoman tells Encomium magazine
"Sex is overrated and sex is for lovers who are trying to make babies. I am not trying to do so, it is not in my agenda. Not having sex for two years feels good. I am saving energy and mileage. I have better things to waste energy on. I want to wait till after marriage because I am not in a rush. Marriage is a commitment. I just don't see myself falling inlove, having sex and being both heart broken. I have never been heartbroken. I can't take a heartbreak..and men these days expect anything from them. To avoid heartbreak, if I meet any serious man we will meet the families, no sex for over six months, so in the process they might find out they don't like me so I can quit easily."
We have heard you. Are you a virgin?
ReplyDeleteHere someone is bloating about two years abstinence! For your info, it's my 6th year now...as a matter of fact, I had sex previously because I wanted to please my man but discovered I was fooling myself. Each time I did, I felt deeply guilty afterwards and asked God for forgiveness. At a point, I was sure I was deceiving myself and had to stop. And no, I don't masturbate, I've never touched myself in my entire 28 years!
DeleteSex till after marraige indeed! You started havin sex at an early stage of ur life, u just tired of it and wants to chill for a while. Enjoy been lonely.
DeletePaparazzi is that you?
DeleteNope she is a lesbian
DeleteDencia must have a stream of sex toys and machines in her wardrobe, anonymous must have had her pumpkin mutilated, thus the 6yrs is like one week.
DeleteWell, I love ya mindset
ReplyDeletethis babe is serious!! why not enter convent babe
ReplyDeleteBlooded liar , n u do sexy Tings to attract men
ReplyDeleteNice...
ReplyDeleteSo cobwebs go don full for there.
ReplyDeleteYou know just bc a woman is celibate doesnt mean she doesnt clean her vjj. There's brazilian waxing, brazilian hair laser removal. It doesnt have to look like the amazon. Not having sex for a while is good for your vjj... the muscles get to relax too. And just bc she's not doing the nasty doesnt mean she is not using products to stimulate. She just said she is not having sex with anyone (I.e. human being)
DeleteYou're dis century's biggest fool.
DeleteTrue talk, that's just the fact
DeleteYou who is calling someone a fool is just dumb, what this individual said makes sense a lot you just dumb enough to understand it
DeleteIf it works for you, then good! Stick to it
ReplyDeleteguess she decided this, after several heartbreaks, sorry girl...
ReplyDeleteNow Miley Cyrus will come and tell us, she has never twerked for 2months. mtchew
Lmao...
DeleteOh she shed just shut up already, I bet she has varieties of yam tubber sized dildos in her drawer.
ReplyDeleteTake several sits pls..if u don't av sex in 2 yrs keep it to ur self, y d announcement? Like we fflw u everywea to know weda u av sex or not, ode oshi.
ReplyDeleteIt encouraging to hear pple talk abt abstaining frm sex b4 marriage.its never too late to realise that.Chastity is indeed a virtue.
ReplyDeleteKeep repping me Dencia,,but all thses ashawo's girls cannever zip up
ReplyDeleteEasy to say
ReplyDeleteWho cares even if ou decide to date a monkey? Ur business abeg
ReplyDeleteU made it ur business the moment u started writing ur comment...
DeleteIdiot, its still not her business
DeleteI just hate dis dencia after she insulted me way back on twitter, immediately i stop following her..... Well, madam me to i never have sex for the past 21 days but still who cares. See madam, my bed dey over comfortable if ur bed no dey sweet yu to sleep bcos na wetin u need nw..... Miss whitenous or wetin self....
ReplyDeleteHate is a strong word.
DeleteDont you use vibrator sex toy?
ReplyDeletei learnt it makes ladies reach multiple orgasm than male d**k?
@dancia
She's making sense although I'm not sure I believe her claim of abstinence.
ReplyDeleteShe looks like a runs girl. Meanwhile its very possible especially in the life of those who have Christ.
ReplyDeleteOk Dencia..good for you
ReplyDeleteHmmm...so true
ReplyDeletenyc strategy against hrtbrk...celibacy rocks joor.@lest d tot of stds nd pregnancy is avoided
ReplyDeleteI like how she uses mileage as a metaphor for how many people she actually had sex with prior to the 2years of celibacy.
ReplyDeleteGo eat a D,Dencia.
xoxo....true talk...sex ain't a big thing...u regret afta doing it especially with someone u don't love...kip it up gal... #kisses
ReplyDeleteStupid girl! I pray it doesn't take time Bfor she understands.
ReplyDeleteUnderstand wat? Idiot
DeleteU are the idiot! Foolish bastard
DeleteDencia u havent met the right person who would sweep u off ur feet and both of u be rolling on his bed in a few weeks
ReplyDeleteIf this is true then is good...keep it up.
ReplyDeleteSoo what is the Qver exposure of breasts and body for ? Is not to invite SEX.
ReplyDeleteDis is serious are u sure about it not having sex for 2year now,dat mean u are not a virgin?
ReplyDeleteShe is soooo vain n shallow!!!! gosh !
ReplyDeleteSee how small n tiny u are. Are u not suppose to be in school or on the street? See wat free internet n cheap phones has caused
DeleteOk gd buh stop makin a big deal out of it,v nt had sex in my whole lyf n m 25 already*rolls eyes*
ReplyDeleteWith diz are NONSENSE dresssing abi... buh am soooo sure she is masturbating. IDIOT
ReplyDeleteIsn't that supposed to be a personal stuff? Just wondering... #Mr Lucky
ReplyDelete*clear throat* nice 1
ReplyDeleteoh plsssss and so what, do u hve to broadcast that, and i seriously dnt bliv u for a second.
ReplyDeleteStory!!! abeg go poss for your masturbating machine for ur room and leave story joor.
ReplyDeleteSo because you're not straight we no go hear word again?
ReplyDelete~~Success Has No Limitation~~
Wise words Dencia.
ReplyDeleteSup with dis chic?? Cos she abstains from sex means the whole world must know! That's not the prerequisite of getting married..
ReplyDeleteCan u do it? Anu inpama
Deleteno wonder she is always looking sex starved in her pictures, am sure she has like 5 dildos
ReplyDeleteGud 4 u
ReplyDelete#word
ReplyDeleteHehehehe. Oķ. Gud for her
ReplyDeleteUr damm ryt my sis ooo. I wish I can b lyk u
ReplyDeleteUr really ryt Nnem
ReplyDeletePut this at the back of your mind, that fornication and adultry is a sin, and no human civilization can ever change that!"
ReplyDeletelamest thing anyone ever said....
ReplyDeleteLol u go grl u re rite wth men of dese daiz anytyn cn hpen
ReplyDeleteIf this lady has nothing to do or say, she should just shut her bleached mouth up. whats up with her and sex sef? who is punishing her? who is deceiving her?
ReplyDeleteAbeg make she pack well jor! her matter don tire people. pscheew!
Hmmm, u don see mumu like u. the words in holy book is very easy to read but to practise is very HARD. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
ReplyDeleteNNE WELL DONE. WITHOUT SEX,ONE WILL STILL LIVE AND IS ALSO FREE FROM FEAR OF STDS AND UNWANTED PREGNANCY
ReplyDeleteNice one
ReplyDeleteBut you have a sex toy right?
ReplyDeleteSo what u do wt ur energy is masturbation then. Ok o if that will save ur hrt from pain,carry go.
ReplyDeleteGood 4u Dencia. Buh reali hw do u knw how bn heartbroken feels if uv never experienced it b4 like u said? Jst wondering..
ReplyDeleteThis dis thirstyhoe. U wish. Be deceieving ur papa.
ReplyDeleteU knw she is a hoe how? Cos u have slept wit her or she is like the hoe suffocating ur neck in ur profile pic. Be decieving ya mama
DeleteU knw she is a hoe how? Cos u have slept wit her or she is like the hoe suffocating ur neck in ur profile pic. Be decieving ya mama
DeleteAt least it will be an excuse for u pple to eat rice. How many years now?
DeleteDencia may not be having sex as she has put it but I know for certainty dat she is deriving so much pleasure worth more dan d sex she said she hadn't....who knows she may be one of dem...d fact dat she isn't been f**kt by a man doesn't mean she isn't aving something els
ReplyDeleteI hear u miss Dencia......#yimu#
ReplyDeleteOK I DON HEAR.
ReplyDeleteFor mind now what are you feeling like? Deceive yourself wella u hear. next news abeg
ReplyDeleteAnd u are a woman. Prostitute show thy self. Cheap satin girl
DeleteNice one babe, its better that way than to feel jilted after sex #very annoying
ReplyDeleteUuuuuuuuuuuuu liar.But u masturbate shaa?i lie?
ReplyDeleteI jx cant believe ds#ana ekwuyeri
ReplyDeleteIf she is not decieving us then she is a true African woman, forget her skin... na bleashing cause am.... kelvin cares
ReplyDeleteMine 7months and counting if it's true then uv tried
ReplyDeleteWho this gbovo de lie for? If I hear!
ReplyDeleteOk, her business
ReplyDeleteHoly mary
ReplyDeleteYou havent had sex in 2yrs so we should cook party rice! Please go and sleep!
ReplyDeleteYes o. Well said. Her toto needs to go on vacation.#okbye.
ReplyDeleteWords of a woman battling the urge. Yawn! Boring!
ReplyDeletejust last month i would have yabbed you and told you to stop fooling yourself but now i am on #TEAMCELEBACY... Sex truly is overated and most times leads to heart ache. All the best girl.
ReplyDeleteENOUGH OF YOU BEING A CELIBATE!!!!!!!!,WE HAVE HEARD,THANK UUUUUUUUU.SHIOOOOIOR.
ReplyDeleteU talk like this cos u r so afraid! And fear will omnlky makme u meet d wrong ppl who will break ur heart sMh
ReplyDeletewe av heard now Dencia....its nt a new tin. am 23 an avnt had sex b4 wats d big deal....haba...am sure linda is even a virgin n she isnt shouting about it...
ReplyDeleteHmmm as 4 me I dnt believe u
ReplyDeleteHuh aunty its easier said dan done and ryt now all I tink is dat u r overrating dis ur celibate ish...keep it 2 urself stop annoucing it,how can u say u r not planning on aving sex til after marriage n u pose like a sex slave or sex figure...sister uv gat issues
ReplyDeleteIts obvious she doesn't know anytn bout sex or d benefits of sex ,mayb research more on d term ASEXUAL
ReplyDeleteSex and scotch.... Me luv
DeleteHahahahahahahaha #sipsmyzobo# Lindodo NEXT
ReplyDeleteMaybe it's d body odour dey perceive from ur 'brightening' cream naim dey keep d men @ bay
ReplyDeleteGood for Her
ReplyDeleteHow dumb can this lady be. So after married and sex u don't mind being heartbroken lol
ReplyDeleteGood for her
ReplyDeleteNice one. But why cant u just keep it to urself. Must u go on broadcasting it? Resolutions like dis r beta kept to oneself jare. Anyways I wish u d best.
ReplyDeleteGood for you.
ReplyDeleteE concern her,she shud continue masturbating n making noise anyhow
ReplyDeleteWaitin glow ur skin like dis?
ReplyDeleteNice 1 dear I like that, I have stay for over 10yrs not haveing six keeping my self for christ waiting for the rite man that will value it......I pray for God to give u the grace he has giving me more and more grce and at the end I know we wiill have a testimony
ReplyDeleteCongratulation.
ReplyDeleteuwa nmebi! so dat is y u use all d oil wey dey ur house take rub body? abeg reduce d modelling oil Biko its giving ur skin a melting plastic look. u ve nt had sex in two yrs so? mayb d last guy dat hit it is still in coma. shior!
ReplyDelete4 ur tiny mind ni..easier said dan done..bt itz gud
ReplyDeleteHehehehehehehehe #dildo tinz
ReplyDeleteAkuko. How many albums u don sell take do whitenicious? If u like tell us say u no de shit.
ReplyDeleteYour words give you away as someone who is satisfying herself with dildo and stuff like that....
ReplyDeleted sex toy u re using, is dat not part of havin sex? lol
ReplyDeleteLol,don't worry the guy will wait till a year and ve sex wit your whitinixious ass. Funny u,we know u prefer dido to a Manz genital. Things like dis sud be kept secret n am sure u dnt want to be rapped. Olodo***@Bukkenny. Sisi linda do post
ReplyDeleteWho is she deceiving pls this story is rubbish let her say it to the birds #bright bravo#
ReplyDeletewell said, sex complicates things jare. Me na after marriage things o
ReplyDeleteoh we hear,gud4u...if u r makin noise lyk diz coz of jux 2yrz den i wonder wat virginz wil say#yawns#
ReplyDeleteThe no sex part is okay every other thing she's saying doesn't make sense
ReplyDeleteabeg go siddon, ur mate plenty outside wey be virgin, u na ony two years, n u dey brag,,,abeg go look bush joor,,,,,,,,,,yaxx
ReplyDeleteSwt linda u dont knw how hapi i feel ds days just readin my comments on ds blog may GOD continue to bless u,as for ds Dencia of a girl she shud go n tak several seats al ds her notice me s bcomin too much
ReplyDeleteWow guess you ve got the best vibrator in the world!!!.....
ReplyDeleteAm surprised! Such a comment coming from ab leaching expert.
ReplyDeleteShut the fuck up
ReplyDeleteMost of ol dis celebrities tlk n think lyk children.....rubbish. ..
ReplyDeleteSeriously, is that from Dencia I know?
ReplyDeletehot photos from Kim at Nigerian entertainment news
Good for u if its true,but........I hope u re not bisexual,cos I suspect u have other means of having sexual pleasure............Pretty T
ReplyDeleteNice if its true. Na taste and see dem r out to do. Go girl
ReplyDeleteMe too.I have not had sex in 30 yrs! Yeah right!who the heck is dis person?one of the so-called celebs u only see in dis blog.pls seriously who is she?
ReplyDeleteSure??
ReplyDeleteHmmm, if I hia!
ReplyDeleteNa lie jooooor!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteOk, I really don't get it, u don't have sex for 2years and u want d whole world to know, @lesat it's for ur own good. I hope wen u finally have sex u would let us know too and tell us how sweet or awful it is.
ReplyDeleteWelldone girl...
ReplyDeleteMtcheew Who cares , linda biko talk another tin
ReplyDeleteMichael Essien Nko has it been two years since we heard they were dating?so they weren't sexing? Na wa and they were playing love games on Instagram chai
ReplyDelete'......They might find out they don't like me.....' - For some reason, I really like that phrase- Very humble.
ReplyDeleteSome self-important celebs would spout it the other way round, 'I'll find out that they're not my type, bla-bla-bla'.
Good one Dencia. And, your sentiments are quite correct, assides lovemaking being only for rearing children.
Help me tell d ladies oh, am tired of seein chicks datin and sleepin wit all d so called boyfriends in d cause of findin mr right...
ReplyDeleteYes o plz tell dem o infact i respect ur decision joor. Dats d best way eva.
ReplyDeleteLol! They write learner for my forehead?
ReplyDeleteKeep decieving your self...who cares if you sex or not? Must you publicize it to the whole world?...smh
ReplyDeleteIs she losing the Whitenicious effect? She's looking less ghostly in this pic. Only she and her god know if this story is true. Some people say anything for attention.
ReplyDeleteGirls of nowaadays sef.How una go just come linda dey lie say u neva sleep with man for two years.The fact still remains if u aint a virgin den u still a whore!
ReplyDeleteAdeGUCCI...omo Agba
That's a good thing
ReplyDeleteSticking your tongue out definitely doesn't make your pic anymore sexy than it originally will be OR will not.
ReplyDeleteThat said, erm...u haven't had sex in 2 years? Lets see how long you can hold out! Some people just don't have it in them.
Whether u hv sex or u don't hv sex is ur biz, who cares anyway? Keep it to ur self! The way u parade ur self doesn't justify ur claims. Shut ur trap gal. @SHoK
ReplyDeleteDts ur wahala dear.
ReplyDeletelolz...*choppin kola nut*
ReplyDeleteI like that girl,keep it up,u r indeed a virtious woman,it's only a fool who think that sex is d primary aim in a relationship,and for those who critisize you because of your good and godly descision,you all have a *little mind*(mind of a fool) be while,expecially ladies.
ReplyDeleteStill on still, i dey jealous yu o......
ReplyDeleteShe is not beTter than dos havin sex, cos she is killing men with dis her sexy outfits witout given them s*x... And she end up using vibrator...
ReplyDeleteHIGH FIVE TO HER. CORRECT GIRL.6 MONTHS SMALL SEF! AM WITH YOU. (SK)
ReplyDeleteDon't worry soon our legislators will come out with ANTI-SEX TOY policy. I will know how u will survive it. Onye Ashi
ReplyDeleteShe is not beTter than dos havin sex, cos she is killing men with dis her sexy outfits witout given them s*x... And she end up using vibrator...
ReplyDeleteDat won't make u a virgin. If u like no fuck for ages na ur tin why boring us wit what should be private. Abi na so u wan take market am?
ReplyDeletejux 2yrz n u makn all diz noise???if u were a virgin den wat wil hapen??#yawns#
ReplyDeleteliar.... whats the big deal, go to china or philippine, u will see a lady that had not had sex for 12 years and above, just 2 years u have not had sex u are broadcasting it... what about the dildo and the vibrator i saw u using...?
ReplyDeleteMe wanna join Ųя group
ReplyDeleteOops!!.guess this is a scopish tin to get a man...lol...#general#
ReplyDeleterecycled virgin.......good luck
ReplyDeleteEnough of all this abeg,do u think anyone call celebrity will come out and tell u i had sex last night or one night stand?
ReplyDeleteSpoken like someone who has suffered a nasty heartbreak. Good for her on the sex thing. Hilary Obiorah
ReplyDeleteoh my God, hw is dis news? dear Dencia we have truck loads..no keke loads of celibate ppl walking arnd, so dear say anoda tin nd greet james(ur dildo) for me
ReplyDeleteA man can still not like u after six months. As the same for a woman. Most of us can do with out sex for long. But I don't care for your sex life @dencia.
ReplyDeleteSpoken like a woman who has had a nasty heartbreak. Good for her on the sex thing. Hilary Obiorah
ReplyDeleteShe never had sex since 2yrs,nd she poss like dat in her pix,seducing me,pls my dear look for another lie
ReplyDeletedoes that include vibrator orgasm?
ReplyDeleteLWKMD! DENCIA CAN LIE FOR AFRICA!!!!
ReplyDeletegud 2hear
ReplyDeleteI laff in spanish. U bragging abt not having sex in 2 yrs. Wot shld virgins now do o.
ReplyDeleteNot two yrs n u are making noise so wetin virgins go do?
ReplyDeleteWho ask her story
ReplyDeleteAunty dencia am 22 goin to 23 nd am stil a virgin so close ur mouth biko
ReplyDeleteNo be say she be virgin, she said she neva av sex for d past 2yrs.. Abi anty dencia? Mtcheeeeww oniro oshi.
ReplyDelete*adefunke*
smart move, Dencia. I didn't have sex with my last bf. I'm still a virgin and proud that I didn't lose it to him, because lo and behold after 6 months, I guess he realized he didn't "love" me as much as he said. so basically he was in it for just sex. we broke up because he couldn't do without sex. whatever. I don't regret anything at the end of the day, because I did not give him my body.
ReplyDeletePractice caution ladies. men will say any and everything to get into your pants. And then the mofos realize they don't really love you and come up with excuses to leave you. I'm lucky I escaped with my hymen intact and luckily his intentions were easy to read like an open book. from the very beginning. watch his actions. do they match his words? use your head.
for her to brag about 2 years abstinence you know she a hoe. lol. leave her now. 2 yrs for her is a big deal.
ReplyDeletewhat of all you women judging. I'm sure you can't go one week without doing it once .
surgery damage the nervous system.that is,one who umdergo surgery cannot feel anything when you are smooch or given a bj because the nervous have been tampered with.It is because of dancia boobs and butts job that is why she lost appertite in sex for years.
ReplyDelete*surgeon*
Am sure your vibrators are made in America cos if it was a chinese product u wudn't have lasted this long without sxx.
ReplyDeleteANOTHER OLODO
ReplyDeleteWho's this babe fooling? We don't need to know you're celibate.
ReplyDeleteDencia, it is obvious you are looking for a husband. Flaunting your new found celibacy status is a desperate way of preventing your pussy from reading DAMAGED, and luring a man to marry you. You only know the number of Mandingo dicks that have penetrated the depth of your 'kept pussy'.
ReplyDeleteSorry, you DON'T strike me like a wife material.
Thank you VIrgin Sista.
ReplyDeleteso wetin you want make we do na
ReplyDeleteu think u can predict ur life.wake up girl
ReplyDeleteu think u can predict ur life.wake up girl
ReplyDeleteI don't understand people, someone says something positive, they go HAM insulting the person... is negative talk what you want? Encourage her - it's good to be celibate virgin or not.May God help us IJN
ReplyDeleteWho knows maybe she's telling the truth anyways babe come here make we jolly joor lol
ReplyDelete