I think he is making some sense. If he 'digs' it with several girls he is hero, but if she does same, she is a flirt. Me I've never cheated on my wife sha.
Even in the Nigerian community, we raise our daughters to believe that all men cheat. No one should get a pass. Sorry guys, you cheat...you walk, cause if I cheat, my man (husband) will not even look at me before my bags are on the curb.
Seriously though, human beings make mistakes and it depends on what happened in that marriage. Sometimes cheating can be forgiven...other times not so much. Ladies and Gents, if you are dating someone and they cheat, chunk up the deuces, cry yourself to sleep 1 or 2 times and be done with that. I would only consider my husband's explanation for cheating (once). No boyfriend/girlfriend should expect anyone to go through the issues of cheating with them. That's a warning sign that the person is not ready to settle down with YOU.
Well newsflash, women are catching up with the cheating game now...studies have shown that women are competitively cheating nowadays unlike back in the days where we feel loyality equates from love. read below
Why are men and women doing this to themselves? If you don't want to be with the other person anymore, free the person and let the person go. Everyday, people are dying of AIDS and suffering from sexually transmitted diseases and yet people refuse to control themselves and their lustful desires. It's really disturbing.
Wendy's husband cheats on her frequestly so she needs to GTFOH with the pretense. And in-case you don't know, men are genetically wired to be dogs! One way or another, your man WILL cheat.
tyrese makes big sense in wat he said! i've caught my husband twice and people tell forgive forgive forgive and his friend caught the wife n immediately sent her packing! the solution to this problem is deep! we hail 'runs chic' for their escapades wit married men but have u heard of 'runs guyz'? single ladies out there there's no perfect man! and you are blessed if u r married to a faithful guy! i have seen the faithful one lack vital things like maybe gud looks or money inshort its extremely rare to see a gudlooking rich guy whose faithful! so tyrese is right if ur man cheats on u its his insatiable libido having the best of him not becos u r not d ideal 'a lady in the street n a freak in bed' wife!
@virtue, it is very good and heavenly to forgive, dear sis. ANd with all due respect, please have it at the back of ur mind, that he may one day, God forbid, have a mistress; possibly marry a second wife, and or have a child outside his matrimonial home. Please may you not get worked up yet :), just saying.
What!!! hell no is he for real. What does he mean that men are meant to cheat he is foolish for saying that come on man its the individual that would decide to cheat. All men are not like you who cannot stay faithful hisssssss!!!! ole oloju kokoro oni ranu
Oh yes, he will cheat. Mind you, he is not going to just start cheating because he's now married but give it a few years and it will happen.. when he begins to make more money and the children arrive ...and while you try your best and still give it to him anyhow and where, he still will.... just dont blame yourself and think it something you have done or notdone.....or allow him try to play that card with you..
some get remorseful and try to get things back...most will just try and hide it better...SAD BUT TRUE!
Hehe... its in their DNA, nt all men nywys!!
ReplyDeleteI think he is making some sense. If he 'digs' it with several girls he is hero, but if she does same, she is a flirt. Me I've never cheated on my wife sha.
ReplyDeleteEven in the Nigerian community, we raise our daughters to believe that all men cheat. No one should get a pass. Sorry guys, you cheat...you walk, cause if I cheat, my man (husband) will not even look at me before my bags are on the curb.
ReplyDeleteSeriously though, human beings make mistakes and it depends on what happened in that marriage. Sometimes cheating can be forgiven...other times not so much. Ladies and Gents, if you are dating someone and they cheat, chunk up the deuces, cry yourself to sleep 1 or 2 times and be done with that. I would only consider my husband's explanation for cheating (once). No boyfriend/girlfriend should expect anyone to go through the issues of cheating with them. That's a warning sign that the person is not ready to settle down with YOU.
At least Wendy is better doing her talk show than the worst attempt ever on Dancing with the stars!
ReplyDeleteAll I know is this...if Cheating was soo ACCEPTABLE, it would not "HURT" the other party.
ReplyDeletethe fact that it hurts and destroys homes and relationships makes it BAD!
Cheating is not RIGHT!
Monogamy might be hard, but it's the right thing to do.
all these double-standards sef!
ReplyDeleteWell newsflash, women are catching up with the cheating game now...studies have shown that women are competitively cheating nowadays unlike back in the days where we feel loyality equates from love. read below
ReplyDeletehttp://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2011/04/08/what-you-told-us-about-women-infidelity/?hpt=Sbin
@Anon 4.05PM,
ReplyDeleteWhy are men and women doing this to themselves? If you don't want to be with the other person anymore, free the person and let the person go. Everyday, people are dying of AIDS and suffering from sexually transmitted diseases and yet people refuse to control themselves and their lustful desires. It's really disturbing.
Haha Wendy told him to gtfo! lool
ReplyDeletetyrese, devil soda dat ya big mouth. gtfo really.
ReplyDeleteWendy's husband cheats on her frequestly so she needs to GTFOH with the pretense. And in-case you don't know, men are genetically wired to be dogs! One way or another, your man WILL cheat.
ReplyDeleteWith this kind of thinking
ReplyDeleteWhat do you expect from an AA
They think with their dicks
Awon onirani buruku
tyrese makes big sense in wat he said! i've caught my husband twice and people tell forgive forgive forgive and his friend caught the wife n immediately sent her packing! the solution to this problem is deep! we hail 'runs chic' for their escapades wit married men but have u heard of 'runs guyz'? single ladies out there there's no perfect man! and you are blessed if u r married to a faithful guy! i have seen the faithful one lack vital things like maybe gud looks or money inshort its extremely rare to see a gudlooking rich guy whose faithful! so tyrese is right if ur man cheats on u its his insatiable libido having the best of him not becos u r not d ideal 'a lady in the street n a freak in bed' wife!
ReplyDelete@virtue, it is very good and heavenly to forgive, dear sis. ANd with all due respect, please have it at the back of ur mind, that he may one day, God forbid, have a mistress; possibly marry a second wife, and or have a child outside his matrimonial home. Please may you not get worked up yet :), just saying.
ReplyDeleteThis is a lie. It is indiscipline.
ReplyDeleteWhat!!! hell no is he for real. What does he mean that men are meant to cheat he is foolish for saying that come on man its the individual that would decide to cheat. All men are not like you who cannot stay faithful hisssssss!!!! ole oloju kokoro oni ranu
ReplyDeleteOh yes, he will cheat. Mind you, he is not going to just start cheating because he's now married but give it a few years and it will happen..
ReplyDeletewhen he begins to make more money and the children arrive ...and while you try your best and still give it to him anyhow and where, he still will....
just dont blame yourself and think it something you have done or notdone.....or allow him try to play that card with you..
some get remorseful and try to get things back...most will just try and hide it better...SAD BUT TRUE!